Esther Perel Explains Why Your Partner Criticizes You

Video quality	The size	Download

Информация о Esther Perel Explains Why Your Partner Criticizes You

Название	:	Esther Perel Explains Why Your Partner Criticizes You
Продолжительность	:	4.20
Дата публикации	:
Просмотров	:	115 rb

I validate my partner all the time, and if he forgets things, I still tell him that it's okay, and he STILL blames me for things so what is his wish that I'm not supporting?? I don't know that I agree with this explanation I do believe that not every coat can be made from every cloth meaning this analogy doesn't fil every man/women!
Comment from : L Bar

Also, what she is saying justifies bad behavior She’s describing a toxic relationship that probably shouldn’t last
Comment from : Twosteaksandwiches

This is the problem with women, though, they need to be more black and white Most men are black and white It’s this passive aggressive… You should know what I’m saying bullshit that needs to stop
Comment from : Twosteaksandwiches

I do ask questions but you have the memory of a gold fish
Comment from : Willard Culver

Mmmm I wish she used a different scenario brCriticism from Negative ppl & Narcs are not about being Neglected…brThey just can’t Stand to See you Happy, so they will try to come after your Self Esteem, to Extinguish your Light
Comment from : Daughter of the King

2:42 - "and that's why I decide to put it on you" is not okay, does not make sense and is unacceptable What are you doing to your partner if you use verbal aggression to externalize your frustration? Simple: throwing them awaybrbrThe awful truth behind this situation is: they should leave you You should experience the consequences of you actions You cannot expect to mistreat your partner and receive positive reinforcement in returnbrbrIt is your fault Take accountability
Comment from : Nike is a Greek Goddess

The guy host is correct, they are nagging to try and change behavior That is selfish and manipulative As a guy or girl you are telling the person "i dont like what you are, change"
Comment from : Marcus Long

I hear a lot of passive aggressive rationalization
Comment from : Roberto

Extremely accurate most women communicate passive they just want come out and say it They use hints and talk in circles
Comment from : me me

Ok When I’m put on the spot in front and f others because he knows I’ll go along with him instead of embarrassing myself
Comment from : Ninnian K

Wow tysm!
Comment from : Netanel Colish

Broken people behave that way To make excuses and not acknowledge what’s really going on and to get along is not the answer Until the person who is criticizing get healed from the trauma that they’ve been through before getting into any relationship, the relationship will be very different
Comment from : Beet DaPayne

My ex had a lot of wishes
Comment from : Lee Lorenz

So by telling someone they aren't good enough for you or can't love you like you want them to! Because you feel like your neglected!? Is going to help?
Comment from : Jon Spruill Sr

this is an excellent part of the discussion for a clip of something which really matters thanks
Comment from : Robin Cain

Remember a relationship holds values because it benefits both So speaking up for oneself even via criticism is a necessary (especially with avoidant attachment as they really do no do well with confrontation) and benefits both partners especially is equality is a value
Comment from : Aloha Mu