The Psychology of Schemas: Why Our Childhood Can Mess Us Up

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1:40 makes a lot of sense 😂
Comment from : Las Vegas Sands

thank you, your videos are always so concise
Comment from : A B

this hits home
Comment from : bertiesbeebox

Beautiful This is a wonderful explanation Thank you
Comment from : gwyneth1881

5:58 That explains why I had severe emotional problems I thought there was something "wrong" with me until I realized I was emotionally neglected
Comment from : Roberta Mirtha

Thank you for all those amazing and informative videos!brI wanted to ask about your perspective about something that emerges from my world with ifsbrSince years I am working on in the direction to feel more of my emotions and have finally made some progress through all sort of modalities Now I came across across parts work and I love it I have parts popping up with names of „bad“ emotions but I am not really feeling the emotions that much, rather getting clues about programs and beliefs how I navigate lifebrI am a bit afraid that through parts work I am kind of depersonalizing and externalizing myself and my emotions It‘s finally giving me reasons for my opposite desires but somehow it feels like this could also create more of that It somehow personalizes and gives voice to stuck hidden stuff but also feels like it’s depersonalizes itbrIs there a danger of kind of loss of identity or feeling completely split and deintegrated?
Comment from : JobbaMoscha

Excellent !!!!!!!!!!!
Comment from : Edangenet Feleke

thank you for sharing very helpful 🤗
Comment from : OPP popis

Great explanation!!!
Comment from : Jesse

Wow, this is truly the best explanation I have ever come across in all my years of therapy and research! I have known of all these concepts for years but this video helped me fully understand with real clarity and in a way that makes it so much easier to implement the knowledge in a real life way Thank you so much! This is a real game changer! ❤
Comment from : JJ Andersson

Woah! I was utterly baffled by the sheer quality of this video when I stumbled upon it! I'm currently writing an essay on schemas and your video was more than helpful Thanks!!
Comment from : Alex

Such incredible stuff Thank you for putting this out there for us to see
Comment from : mike110111

At age 61 this is the most concise and efficient explanation of the formative years of early childhood 📚 br🍀 I’m one lucky guy to find this video!
Comment from : Lee Boriack

Yes
Comment from : scott thomas

Very Good video!! ❤️
Comment from : Star 123

This is amazing insight by Dr Tori Olds
Comment from : Anthony L

Excellent description!!!
Comment from : Katerina Grympillou

👏🏻👏🏻😊
Comment from : Sterl Girl

This really resonated with me
Comment from : Oriana Terravecchia

Excellent explanation! Thank you doc 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Comment from : RoseMac

So relieved to have found this clear and reassuring explanation of schemas My therapist said we would work on my schemas next week and I've been worrying about what to expect brNow that I know that schemas are the little maps we draw in childhood to ensure survival I feel I can work with that I'd also been spooked by the word 'maladaptive' but this video shows the strategies worked successfully in childhood, they just need updated for adult life which makes more sense Off to watch Memory Reconciliation now!
Comment from : Coral McCrystal

Thank you for taking the time to explain a complex subject in a very simple manner That's a rare quality
Comment from : Gerry Lindfield

Great work Excellent integration of concepts Very helpful
Comment from : Greg

I had childhood trauma and I’m still learning how to support my toddler’s emotional health better My question is, when I have an off day, does that impacted my child in a negative way right away even I apologize the same day?
Comment from : Anne Paredes

I am really enjoying these videos and so glad I came across your channel I like how they provide a different perspective to issues that we tend to have as grown ups (eg ) low self esteem, and to be reminded that we are not “defective” in some way- that there is a “logical” explanation to why we feel/act as we do at certain times I see many similarities with the concepts of Internal Family Systems therapy by Richard Schwartz I read a lot of IFS titles and am doing my own inner parts work etc However you have worded concepts in a great way that makes things click in place- they jog my memory of certain childhood experiences like “a-ha, that makes sense” moments! Sometimes a different explanation can create a new sense of awareness to help heal certain wounds and this in itself provides a sense of hope Please continue your great work! I’m very grateful 😊
Comment from : lcam303

Commenting often because I am binging all of these videos Another idea which comes to mind is how children or adults adapt to a situation in which their schema of reality has been challenged For instance, a child might have a good relationship at home with their parents, but they might have a teacher which is verbally abusive when the child makes a mistake on a homework problem It seems like this would "fragment" or "disorganize" the child's schema of the association between failure and punishment I'd be curious to know how negative, mismatch experiences (like the one mentioned above) compare to chronic neglect In one instance, a schema is fragmented and in the other hand, the schema is negative from the beginning I could be understanding this process incorrectly, but I thought it was worth playing around with the idea
Comment from : Garrett Dyess

Deep, this should have way more views Very well explained - thank you !
Comment from : Chill Renee

So helpful, thank you Cptsd and bipolar from narcisstic parent and continuing life events
Comment from : Happy Days

Thanks so much!!
Comment from : Abundance

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Comment from : P N

Really helpful thank you so much for this series ❤️
Comment from : Shamil bashar

I really interest SCHEMA
Comment from : 슈퍼나나

Another great resource Thanks
Comment from : Michał Sosnowski

Beautifully put 👍 thanks for this 😊
Comment from : C D

Love this series Truly deep and full of insights
Comment from : Vishal Upadhyay

Excellent video Dr Olds! I've listened over and over againplease give me a replacement for "defense mechanism" you mentioned "adaption" can you give the full language please? would it be "they are using an adaption? vs They are using a defense mechanism"
Comment from : Sandra R

Great Job Tori 👍, I know therapists are known to be smart and informative But pretty too?
Comment from : PreyOnTheWeak

Hi, I'm not able to listen to the videos, but the closed caption aren't readable Are the scripts for the videos in transformation series available, please? Many thanks
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