CPTSD u0026 Attraction to Unavailable People: An Excerpt from My Dating Course (Part 1)

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OH MY gosh thanks for the info just waking up after 40 yrs of this Pattern on repeat! Every cell in my body is jumping for joy from the wake up call Cant wait for part 2
Comment from : C C

I'm 34 and I wish I could stop being attracted to emotionally unavailable men or being a magnet to emotionally chaotic people toobrI've only just realised this the other day, after giving the same kinds people second chances over and over againbrI only ever do this because I have always been forced to accompany mean spirited family members repititively growing up 😢
Comment from : AA🌺

Wow this resonates with me tremendously but I'm alredy in the healing stage and I want to be aware
Comment from : Xu

Thank you! I wanted it to continue with: how to stop doing that? What to work on? How to be grounded and get us out of this mind-trap loop? brI have one small bit of advice: if it makes you anxious, like your gut is not having it, like something is or feels wrong: listen to it Maybe you need to get a clean-and-fresh-air break out of the situation to realize “what emotions am I dealing with right now?”, what are my fears right now? And that’s what you need to deal with, by yourself, for yourself, with yourself… And you’ll be ok in the end This too shall pass It’s ok…
Comment from : Mathidou Canada

I have my notebook pulled out and ready to incorporate these items to heal from a unhealthy long term marriage Symptoms seem to be the same At a loss as kind of sinking with confusion as how to recognize and start to heal after almost a lifetime
Comment from : Marianne Thames

Does this apply to emotionally unavailable people? I mean like a person who also has CPSTD and is extremely guarded & half way shut down so there’s a real lack of intimacy and just emotionally immature and really not very sentient or empathetic or emotionally supportive
Comment from : Hilo state of mind

Hit the markI married an unavailable manturns out he's on Asperger’s spectrumtook 40 years to figure out his behaviorhe can't connectno apathy, has no need for emotional connection basically like a robotbut I'm so damaged I have allowed myself to be treated like thisworkaholic and I stayed home to raise childrennow he's retired but still finds ways to stay gonecan't remember ever being happyalways knew I had a damaging childhood but after listening to you I now see everything in my life goes back to CPTSDI've done alot of self work therapies counseling still stuck in long established behaviors 😢😢😢
Comment from : Mile Hi y all

Why did the video end right b4 the answer?
Comment from : MR Stoner 2udude

I've always thought of myself as the master self-sabotager, including always choosing unavailable partners, and messing up career opportunities Been alone all my life
Comment from : Margaret Hofstetter

Thank u is there partv2?
Comment from : יהודית אל חסיד

This is a difficult subject for me I am working on myself and not pursuing a romantic relationship but I tend to attract "unavailable friends" Whether emotionally or they don't have time and it's very painful for me and my children
Comment from : Tina Stevens

I never ever knew this and it makes so much sense thank you
Comment from : Love Zyn

It really hurts to hear people call other people a narcissist because I am a narcissist I don’t mean to be this way, it’s just how I am I’ve gone through a lot of therapy, counseling, and long absences from my social life over this It’s not a treat I choose to carry But it is a treat I am actively working on I am an emotionally Unavailable to pretty much everyone in my life Including myself Not sure why I chose the comment this, but it made me feel better
Comment from : Samiam

Omg Does this apply to Complex PTSD too? I’m seeing 3 very UNAVAILABLE MEN right now Omg I never connected it to my abuse I think after a ten year abusive relationship with my husband it gives me a sense of control No one can tell me what to do Because they’d be held just as accountable too Oh dear I will definitely bring this up on my first therapy appointment
Comment from : Miranda Kelly Art