| Название | : | The #1 MINDSET To Stop Insecurity u0026 Anxious Attachment From Ruining Your Relationships |
| Продолжительность | : | 14.06 |
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| Просмотров | : | 72 rb |
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Thanks man Comment from : @cristian-or3hq |
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Hello clayton I just wanted to say thank you for this video I’ve been dealing with a lot of relationship anxiety even tho i just found out what it was at first I thought i was just an odd person but come to realize relationship anxiety really is a thing once again thank you for this video because you really opened my eyes into how to fix relationship anxiety i cant wait to replay this video 100 more times Comment from : @Randomm220 |
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Thank you for this Comment from : @genildamagdali3315 |
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From which book does this knowledge come from? Comment from : @andrejalbrecht |
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What do you do when you need more communication I feel like that's a fundamental need and that's what causes me to have anxiety I'm not an anxious person I know my worth how would you ask for this in a relationship thank you this was an amazing video ❤ Comment from : @danielleemch8991 |
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Wow I have never been more Targeted in my life 😢 Comment from : @thesean161 |
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This was extremely helpful- thank you Comment from : @glazedconfused8764 |
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Thank you Comment from : @RavenMadd9 |
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Overall, I’m not an insecure person I feel secure in a relationship until the man I’m with literally stares at other women in front of me When I was married I felt feelings of rejection when my husband looked at other women in front of me but, I never expressed my feelings about it to him After being single and unattached for 3 years, I got into the relationship I’m currently in It’s a great healthy relationship Initially he was doing the same thing I expressed to him that I feel disrespected when he does that and he stopped doing it But my question is why do I feel like this and what can I do to stop feeling this way? I wish that when my partner looked at other women that it wouldn’t phase me What he does when I’m not around doesn’t phase me I’d like to keep that posture all the time Comment from : @daniellejones1460 |
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Wow you have deep beautiful eyes Comment from : @blindbandit4679 |
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especialy the last point! thank you Comment from : @bslangable |
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Wow why isn’t this man mainstream? We all need him in our livesI love how he compares this to finite!!! Very creative Comment from : @skyisthelimit9897 |
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The finite thinking is the game my whole marriage of 15 years was playing which ultimately caused us to divorcebrbrBut with infinite thinking weve been able to reconcile and become partners again and feel excited to be together and grow together applying what weve learned and look to the future, truly as onebrbrThings are absolutely different and i never thought id feel this way about partner or ex spouse Comment from : @TierraKamamalu |
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I need your help desperately Comment from : @carlimarie5886 |
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You are awesome! Comment from : @chloeroque7697 |
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beautiful Comment from : @quiqayquo2906 |
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Clayton, how would you implement these in your relationship? How do you make that change? Comment from : @justanotherviewer00 |
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i relate to all the finite thinking examples given When I was listening to the Threat vs Inspiration one I cried a bit I'm 19, with my first serious boyfriend of two years I tired of my anxiety and fear I just want to be better, for him, for myself I feel guilty to be with him, and I question what he sees in me and why he stays with me, and I loathed myself for not being mature enough like how he is It's so exhausting and stressful to deal with this much overthinking and negativity everyday and trying to keep it to myself and solve it myself so as not to burden anyone around me Shit I mean I know how strong I am and all that I've overcame so far, and I know I'll get through this because I'm not one to give up But damn I'm just thinking how long would it take me? How long do I need to make him wait? three fours years maybe? 8 years? idk I acknowledge that I am making progress each day Somedays I just want to cry I won't allow myself to ever give up trying, but I'm so damn tired Comment from : @ntlcce |
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wow Comment from : @dingenzdm |
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Brilliant Thank You Comment from : @greenentrepreneurs |
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Wow, this moved me I will utilize this and rewatch it whenever I feel stuck I have been dealing with crippling relationship anxiety and I feel so much better after this You've gained a subscriber for life Comment from : @c0zmickgaming812 |
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I’m really really struggling whether it’s my anxiety or if I do want to leave my marriage it’s an awful awful feeling br4 weeks ago I had a panic attack non related and spiralled into me questioning my marriage if I love him etc etc has anyone had this ? Comment from : @crystalslade8056 |
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Clayton, I want to thank you so much for sharing this perspective I was experiencing terrible inner stomach insecurity and listening to your video around 6 minutes alleviated the feeling I’ve been experiencing in my new relationship during the last 3 weeks of my lifebrbrThank you so much, watching your video just made something click and I don’t have to feel the insecurity I’ve been harvesting; I can exert that energy in a different way Comment from : @rod3546 |
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Holy shit man I got a lot to work on Comment from : @garrettlee5724 |
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So glad I took the time to listen to this - this helped me so much Comment from : @ltl_melbourne |
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How do I change my mindset to infinite thinking? I don't wanna screw up with what I got going with my amazing lady Comment from : @birdman4L |
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Heaven sent information Thank you so much Comment from : @bpyks7180 |
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Hello, I watched this video about 8 times 5 weeks ago, I was struggling with immense relationship anxiety and this video has changed my life I’ve always read people commenting on videos about how life changing the advice in the video was but nothing has resonated with me like that until I saw this video I now have a healthier “take it day by day” approach and don’t put my sense of security in the hands of my relationship and it has been a game changer and my relationship has never been so good in the year and a half we have been together Thank you so much! 🌞 don’t let your anxiety destroy your relationships people it’s not worth it Comment from : @user-ik7od2ls2u |
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This is so eye opening! Thank you very much! Your teaching has truly helped me 🙏🏻 you truly have a way with words and explaining things Thank you for your help Comment from : @ieatfreshmen |
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Anxiety killed my marriage and relationship Comment from : @rogeliorodriguez529 |
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Everything you said is spot on🙌 Comment from : @luceebee5001 |
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This is the best relationship advice video I have ever watched! Thank you! Comment from : @jamiegee3997 |
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Fantastic thank you 🙏🏻 Comment from : @zoezigzag3067 |
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Wow 😮 Comment from : @marydenisemitchell8718 |
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Wow! Comment from : @juanitagartley937 |
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bMy girlfriend is simping to this dud a singer, have a good fashion sense, and yeah a good looking guy long hair good voice he love that dud so much "A local artist here in oir country" and that slowly i can't stop but to compare myself to that dud she explains to me it's different etc i said OK a year later now she had another dud that she simping another good looking guy that can sing ang yeah another "long hair plus good voice combo and also local artist here in our country" I can't stop but to be sad about When ur partner admiring someone? like really down bad even if its just an artist you can't stop comparing yourself her excuses was "well I'll never get that chance to see them or atleast be close to them anyway so that's ok" but the anxiety in me what if she found someone nearby that have all the same features that she love its the long hair dud with a great voice I feel like i can be done or out anytime lol 😆 I really need your POV here guys thanks/b Comment from : @thegreatcolossus7500 |
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This works! My focus now is how to be a better man To be the man I wanted someone to be towards me (I am gay just FYI) if they end up with me, great and if not, it’s cool too My new focus now is MY GROWTH AS A MAN Comment from : @directorclarkmonroe |
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Brilliant, compassionate, and mature advice The ultimate goal of a relationship is wholeness and growth for each person The bond will ultimately suffer from behavioral strategies Operating from a giving place, with patience and empathy will yield permanent results regardless of the short term outcome Thank you Clayton Comment from : @wildrose1247 |
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🙌🏻 Comment from : @keshrieraju2854 |
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Sir, you are called for this Thank you, and God bless your mind and spirit with His wisdom Comment from : @Sashaaii |
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Finite vs Infinate thinking is why I use to perceive myself so different from others I’m often pulled into control dramas, as I’m 20 turning 21 November Going through my breaking away from the parents but in an EMBODIED way❤️🔥💥 Comment from : @tiaho-whetufordmagic7133 |
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☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽Thanks to the name mentioned above 👆 👆 he helped me to spy 🕵️♀️ my husband iPhone and I can all so read his messages without him noticing, Comment from : @user-xu1ou2bn2b |
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☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽Thanks to the name mentioned above 👆 👆 he helped me to spy 🕵️♀️ my husband iPhone and I can all so read his messages without him noticing, Comment from : @user-xu1ou2bn2b |
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I needed this so badI'm in a LDR and it's been getting to me so much knowing that I can't see what she's doing over there I'll admit I've had the "finite" mindset for a while but I'll do better from now onThanks for this information, this is just what I needed Comment from : @blessbima0642 |
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It's hard to change ur thinking when it's coming from an emotion or possible trigger for some Comment from : @dominator1583 |
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Wow! 😮 Thank you for this 🙏 I’m definitely a finite thinker and it has caused many problems in my relationships I’m so happy I came across your video it was a true eye-opener Comment from : @20Donna11 |
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I’ve been looking for an answer such as this… the black and white thinking gets exhausting for me & to view situations from a much broader/open perspective will be a new approach for me Thank you Comment from : @solvixxen |
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That’s an extremely unique concept I realize I’ve unknowingly put goals on my relationship and it creates huge tension Focusing on the present and keeping things moving forward in healthy ways without an end goal makes so much more sense Don’t worry about what the future holds 💡 Comment from : @HananeelStudio |
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Thank you so much, this is healing 🙏 Comment from : @noashlichter |
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Last one is me 😞… a lot of my trust has been taken for granted over the years that now with this guy I’m looking to date is affecting me I hate feeling that way…like he’s out there meeting other people when he’s just not doing that… Comment from : @ando1135 |
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This is beyond awesome! Incredibly helpful ! Comment from : @cy2206 |
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Thank you so much for this video I found myself nodding yes at my incorrect, anxious behavior Comment from : @djflowhood5060 |
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Great explanation! Thank you for taking the time to share this with us all Comment from : @alena725 |
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Great presentation and contents! 🙏😊 Comment from : @riseaboveyourlimits888 |
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Insightful! Meet the CEO of finite thinking 🤔 💭 🤦♀️ Comment from : @elle9633 |
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So freaking true… sometimes i really feeling lost… especially when you know those things you’re telling… Prop is stress hormone… feel’s the body so hard to let go of that feeling… Comment from : @TheAdventurousoutdoors |
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Thank you for this video You have explained this in a way which really resonates with me Fantastic You’ve really helped me here!! Comment from : @katherineknowles5037 |
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Just wow Comment from : @ellapark8770 |
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I needed to hear this, thank you Comment from : @tomstewart6423 |
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I never comment, but this is so amazing Why am I just now hearing about this? This can change my life!!! Comment from : @brandyjones1293 |
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Amazing Comment from : @NeverGiveUp66963 |
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Oh my goodness, I really needed to hear this! What a wake up call this has been Thank you xx Comment from : @Lolly1974 |
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I’ve managed my anxiety for nearly a year now Recently I discovered relationship anxiety as it manifested in my life Thanks to everything I’ve done to manage anxiety in my everyday life, I knew to turn inward and do the work to instead of demanding my partner reassure me everyday I did let him know that I was anxious and it would supportive to hear reassuring words but ultimately I know that is my job and my job alone to do the work Journaling, meditating, trusting that the universe sent him because he’s who I asked the universe for So yes, get support from your partner when you’re feeling scared about if the relationship will fail Allow them to give you reassuring words BUT do the work yourself and meet your own needs Comment from : @evelynbrown8746 |
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Threat because we've been traumatized by previous people who have gaslighted us, lied, and cheated on us Comment from : @anja7787 |
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JESUS EVERYONE NEEDS TO HEAR THIS Comment from : @anja7787 |
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Why are all men who are into psychology bald? 😑☝️ Comment from : @morganwheatley8521 |
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Wow, you really have an amazing concept It really is helping me Even your previous videos Bravo! Comment from : @ii-yu8rg |
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Infinite thinkers are not concerned with the commitment but rather the connection 💯 Comment from : @gypsychloe954 |
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good stuff Comment from : @urbanroadsmedia5896 |
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I have all the finite thinking 🥺🥺🥺 Comment from : @samrachanashrestha7913 |
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Bro this has helped me so much thank youuuuu Comment from : @YOSHELF |
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Thanks for making this I may have just sabotaged a relationship largely due to my anxiety While I may or may not get a chance to salvage it, I need a shift in mindset to avoid this sort of thing in the future I'm sure I'll be watching and rewatching this in the coming weeks Comment from : @JZ909 |
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Insecurity for me comes from people not knowing what they want and not stating their intentionsbrbrRomantic relationships need stability and consistency to flourishbrbrAs far as Im concerned put a label on it brbrAs much as I enjoy spontaneity Im not going to put something in my mouth if I don't know what it is Comment from : @lisaariottiart |
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I need to watch this at least 100 more times Comment from : @febet7179 |
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this guy red me like a book Comment from : @bigboy1250 |
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Sometimes rewatching these videos help so much It calms me down and helps sooth me and empowers me so much to work on self growth Thank you so much Comment from : @emilyho7838 |
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This video is great! brbrMaybe I’m dumb for asking, but everyone always mentions “connection” but don’t really define it or give examples Would you be able to define it and give examples? Comment from : @MiZShortiiE |
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Just giving as a reward Not giving to receive or expect to receive Comment from : @cm9859 |
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You are so right Competition Overthinking WOW! Accurate Comment from : @cm9859 |
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Hmmmm I don't understand what he's talking about Expectations of a significant other are, in fact, necessary Not just me becoming me He has to walk the line, and so do I Relationships are built on that ??? Comment from : @Honeycombe88 |
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OMG! This is one of the best explanations I’ve ever heard Comment from : @jolykesrola8707 |
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Understand what the subject is being discussed here The issues I’ve got is how to differentiate that & knowing the commitment/ investment our partner put in? Comment from : @nengahtung3756 |
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Amazing Is there a book you would recommend that elaborates on this concept? Comment from : @Alexiandary |
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Very helpful!! Comment from : @barb1360 |
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What a relief to think this way - lots of thx Comment from : @milenawidomska-syrek6337 |
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Love this!!!! Comment from : @waitwhat6882 |
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This shit is great Comment from : @rockymckay1705 |
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I am in the midst of getting over my insecurities Seven months in to the best relationship of my life with a man who has been extremely patient with me It is so hard to understand this content with your head intelligently but to respond emotionally It leads to more self doubt and loathing It is definitely a process worth going through because at the end of the day patterns repeat Thank you for another way of looking at things Comment from : @jeanniespieles7279 |
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Thank you so much Comment from : @crazyontwowheels |
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