| Название | : | 7 Red Flags You Should NEVER Ignore | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs |
| Продолжительность | : | 10.16 |
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I love this guy!! Everything he said was spot on Comment from : @Shannnie |
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I ended a relationship because some things did seem off to me, and watching this video gives me confirmation that I did have definite and real concerns Thanks for making this! Comment from : @sabrinabethers8370 |
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Another one: He’s not very attentive to you or doesn’t show a lot of interest in your life outside of your dates Comment from : @therealtulip |
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When he is still best friends with his ex, but she does not want to meet you And worst case he told you she wants him back for a poliamorous game 😉that was how things were, when I met my boyfriend at first When I had all clues together, I told him it's her or mebrHe`s a rock solid grounded/humble person and told me, that she will never get him back, cause he is committed to me and wants us to be monogamysbrbrAlso a red flag, when he admits, that several relationships ended, because he cheatedbrhe's gonna cheat againbrbrAnother: he does not want your dog in his car, cause he thinks your dog is filthy But you even brought a blanket to but underneath the dog in the foot place of the co-driver-seat Ps That guy left to and I walked home alone 2,5m with a dog, that had hip-problems (we got there by bus in a very rural region, 1bus per 2h and 95°F)brbrSoo, thats all I can think of atm xDbrbrBtw, sorry if I misswrote smt Englisch is not my native language 😬brbrMr Boggs I have been tuning into this channel the past few weeks now And your words have helped me heal from my ex-husband a lotbrBecause, I always thought that I was the problem I'm not gonna put my dirty Landry out in the comment section, let's just say that much:brit was very unhealthy and hurtfulbrbrbrMy boyfriend and I, just had our first anniversary and are planning to start a family and a of other thingsbrHe is everything I could ever wish for! And yes he has his flaws, which I also love 💕brbrSo Mr Boggs: i want to thank you from the bottom of my heart, for the effort you are putting into this channel and the confidence you are instilling in me, so I can grow into a better person for the rest of my life, for my future kids, my future husband and for myselfbrBest of wishesbrJD Comment from : @emogirl71187 |
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Also if he's resentful to his dad huge red flag Comment from : @br4524 |
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What if I’m in a 25 year relationship with someone I care about and love and they have about 5 of these? Is heartbreak the only option if I want more joy and happiness in my life? 😢 Comment from : @MRSRALLYSWORLD |
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Ya Everything seemed so right but ouch So many things came up Comment from : @darlenemontgomery9337 |
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What about an idiot who neglects you to go party with his friends ALL THE TIME Comment from : @gamerforlife123100 |
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The first is the biggest RED FLAG for any man His relationship with his mother is key to him being a healthy healed man A man will never treat ypu any better than Jesus treats his own mother Watch for that relationship dynamic Comment from : @blondshellcc |
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Withdraws rather than talking out issues Always needs to be right or have the last word Comment from : @shannonmcgill8206 |
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When you watch a video and realise you're a red flag Comment from : @dazza8551 |
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1st red flag,brBad breath and body odor,brbr2nd red flag,brTalks Ill about other dates just to please ubrbr3rd red Flag,brSomeone who just listens and never speak up about himself, he tries to know everything about u,but he has nothing to say Comment from : @suparnabasuroy9445 |
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How about always talking about its people that have the woo on me when I get upset about something he has said Comment from : @doree1990 |
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Run away from MANWHORES Comment from : @Lily-uo6hp |
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Nothing wo*se than someone who lies, that's a big bed flag, O/b someone who neve* int*oduces you to thei* f*iends and family, and who neve* pays thei* fai* sha*e o* becip*ocates( So**y my compuye/b has issues) Excellent p*esentation Mat, will be ve*y helpful to many A pe*son who does not sha*e simila* co*e values is not a good match as fa* as I am conce*ned, no* is someone who fails to be *espectful to self and othe*s Having good manne*s is impo*tant too Comment from : @sjordan7085 |
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Let's Add:br1 When you give him feedback, instead of asking to explain nor to see what changes he can make He argues about itbr2 When you feel your energy is being sucked out of you just by talking to him because his day is always so hard br3 When he complains about everything and everyonebrbrREMEMBER:br1 When it's too good to be true, because it is (no one is perfect) let's make that clearbr2 A famous saying goes "There is always something" (never assume there is none) follow your instinct Comment from : @cupidscorner4834 |
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Idiots can project their fears as your weaknesses and blame you with their manipulative tactics I can not be responsible for such low belief systems I can empathise but resolving that doesn’t always happen Comment from : @Shyamazha |
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What can you do about parents who are so stuck in limited in belief systems and demand on running your life???? Obviously, one needs to try to comprehend their fears and insecurities and talked to them But if that doesn’t do anything, obviously, one needs to wish everyone well and continue living NOT ALWAYS CAN YOU RESOLVE EVERYTHING, sadly Sometimes you can only come to terms with it and self reflect not to carryover shadows from that relationship Comment from : @Shyamazha |
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My husband has all 7 red flags Comment from : @yellowmint5 |
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What if you point out how his actions are what created his ex's reactions and he breaks up with you saying you violated his trust in using something he told you against him in order to hurt him Comment from : @kristinegallery7776 |
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Why would he need to know if my work has a 401K plan? Comment from : @janc1584 |
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That feeling when you got 7 out of 7 Comment from : @juliatravelme |
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Another red flag is definitely not having a negotiable attitude toward a difference of opinion that does not permit discourse! Comment from : @keddy5627 |
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Word: Perfectionistsbr1) critical perfectionistsbr2) Over controlling and attention seeking perfectionistsbr3) passive aggressive perfectionistsbr4) lecturing perfectionistsbrAnd the very worst…br4) positive thinking perfectionistsyou’re not allowed to have negative emotions, you haven’t had a bad day- you just need to be positive otherwise you’ll be shamed and dumped v soon (said in a positive upbeat voice with patronising hand gestures) Comment from : @Psychologist-ic2db |
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Number 2 and 7 Comment from : @ameriasian6 |
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Complaining, blaming, lack in self responsibiliy, self-awareness, general negativityits going to make ur life miserable Just go, sis, you cant fix him and u Are no ones cheerleader or coach Comment from : @suzsiz |
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How to know if I'm the red flag? Not dismissing red flags about guys, they exist and we are to pay attention to them but if they have theirs, we have them too What is a woman's red flag? Comment from : @germenchiquitodetrigo |
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On a first date, every turn in the conversation wound up with him talking about his wife, who had died two years earlier from cancer -- how much he loved her, how affectionate she was, how much he missed her, her endearing habits, etc It was a sign to me that he still had grief work to do before he'd have a place in his life for new love Comment from : @hollyr1139 |
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Their aunt and/or uncle messages you about them having violent tendencies Comment from : @annageorge8406 |
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Honestly relationships are just too much drama and work The mind games, the worry, the insecurities, etc, etc I'm just over it Comment from : @laurielaurie8280 |
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Friends You can't choose your family but you do chose your friends If you don't like his friends, you may find he is more like them than you thought Comment from : @janetmcginty7712 |
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Or he has no motivation or ambition He’s selfish He cries over everything And he has mother issues in that he never felt her love so now he projects that on you Comment from : @ionawilson8380 |
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Is checking out other women a red flag? Comment from : @linxi143 |
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Hi Well I'm in a relationship and he used me as a excuse to end the relationship he was in and used me to sober up and he helps out with my kids once in awhile and sometimes he tunes me out when I'm talking to him or is very distant in bed or day time and only talks to me just to ask a question Comment from : @helenhotch6830 |
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I would add: brIn a certain age never has been in a relation brOr brNever has been singlebrOr brNever see his living space or socialcircle Comment from : @Bigred338 |
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😭💔 Comment from : @RaquelNavas |
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In conclusion, imma just be single I’ll be happier Comment from : @qqq6309 |
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My ex husband had all the red flagsbrWow how lucky iam 😂 Comment from : @oumtalia5465 |
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Your advices really works from the day I saw your videos I started to apply it and look into my situation and be aware for the red flags Thank you for this wonderful thought that you shared More learnings in your upcoming videos More power and God Bless!! Comment from : @realtalk6484 |
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1 Resentful toward his mother 2 He speaks poorly about his exes 3 Your intuition is telling me something is off 4 Continuously rescheduling dates for good reasons 5 Treating people differently than he treats you 6 Mood swings 7 Obsessed about work Comment from : @veronicamitchell9378 |
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Substance abuse should be considered for sure Comment from : @sbelleci |
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#4 is really tricky!! Comment from : @giannakim119 |
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Telling u he’s married but lives on his own for 2 yrs Comment from : @SuperSainsworth |
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Watch out for the covert narcissist ladies Its easy to spot the overt ones (the braggers) but the coverts hide in plain sight However they usually will not ask questions about you (dont have another date if he didnt ask you questions) which is the most obvious signbr Many toxic personalities assimilate (mimic or feign the same traits) as their targets Honesty just look into his eyes If you use your deeply undervalued and largely ignored intuition you will literally be able to see how much kindness (or lack thereof) there is behind his eyes Comment from : @Sarahhenderson11 |
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I was on an online date with a guy who does talks poorly of his ex's and will be like "Oh you're just like them" and I never do anything wrong just trying to get him to be happy One red flag that got me to pull away during the relationship is he made me cry and he said "It makes me happy to hear you cry It show you care about me" Or telling me to set boundaries with my family cause they pull me away Told people I'm manipulative, told me I was a selfish which my friends told me I'm far from being selfish since I am a giving and caring typebrSoooo never enter a relationship with a too soft of a heart that can break Give as much you can but never over do it, the wrong guy/girl can tear you to pieces :( Comment from : @BluHana06 |
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Red Flag - you never meet his friends Comment from : @adriennegould7160 |
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Well , I dont like mamas boys Comment from : @starqueenlotus3755 |
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I expressed my feeling to him and put my heart on the table and he showed nothing Comment from : @trudybryant7067 |
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Seriously if all his ex were crazy,it means you gonna b the craziest one,trts apoint Matt Comment from : @debbynamuleme5395 |
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Red Flag, When he tells you that if you are in disagreement with his perspective…that means you’re not showing him respect Comment from : @nancyleebushnell1304 |
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Great advice, thank you Comment from : @nancyleebushnell1304 |
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First two red flags off rip was the red flags in my last narcissistic abusive relationship this video is spot on Hopefully other women takes this man’s advice serious Comment from : @xbEAUTYb00 |
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I just really try in understanding men, I really do, thanks for the insight, still trying Insight is helping Thanks Comment from : @vandelynbox9624 |
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Never been married, no kids at 45 or above 🤦🏻♀️ big res flag to me There’s always a reason to that Comment from : @lisapayne2352 |
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Man, I wish I had known some of these a coupleof years ago!!! The whole thing about a man who prioritizes his work got me 2 yrs wasted but thankfully, pushed me to the right person Comment from : @jenniferturpin5300 |
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My ex talked about his exes as much as possible when we were together Comment from : @clairefromyt5561 |
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I took notes! Thanks Matt!brSome others I can think of:br1 bad temperbr2 financially irresponsiblebr3 forms of love bombing in the early stages saying you are his dream girl!br4 words and actions do not align He'll say he is looking for a long term relationship, but his investment is "breadcrumbs" of attention enough to keep you hooked br5 He is not asking really good questions that determine if both of you are a good fit/compatible br6 Relationally lazy Spending time is not a priority to him Comment from : @sweetcandicedj |
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When he only talks about himself and doesn't ask about me 🙄 Comment from : @princesschuchay |
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he lives on his cell phone Comment from : @terricunningham6810 |
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He expeçts you to pay for his drink and/or meal too Comment from : @MartaSloane |
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Drinking a lot with the buddies On my second date with my ex he actually brought an elderly neighbor with him to meet me The two had been running errands together and decided to stop off and have a drink Ya…the entire date was me, my ex and his elderly neighbor I had to drive them home because they continued to drink heavily after meeting mebrbrMy ex lives to party with the guys Comment from : @krismiller5126 |
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Let him go if he acts like a good guy only when you act bitchy to him Comment from : @alex_yon |
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Omg i ignored the talking bad about exes part, and i wish i didnt I also ignored the work part Now we have a baby are broken up A red flag is drinking a lot, always talking like everyone worships the ground you walk on, over exaggerating stories like a lot, everything always being my fault incuding my feeling unhappy with how things were going Comment from : @ashleybellerose7104 |
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Wish I saw this when I first started dating! This should be a elective in school 💯😅 Comment from : @ElephantsRusify |
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Red flags for me: br1 He cant make any compromise for you( He is always too busy or has an excuse to help you out even when you are sick Does not still help you and says he is busy)br2 He tells you that you cant get eveything you want in lifebr3He prefers to hang out with you only with his group of friends Does not plan dates for both of youbr4 Treats his family or friends better than he treats youbr5 He can never or finds it hard to say am sorry even when he is wrong Comment from : @lidafubara6694 |
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No 3 for me My intuition is telling me something is wrong I don't know why, because he's a great guy on paper I don't know if it's my insecurities that I am trying to sabotage a potential relationship, or is there actually something wrong here I don't know what to do? Comment from : @ashakannan3710 |
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Red flag: 1 Bills piled up in his house 2 Always broke and needing to borrow money 3 Doesn't take care of his appearance or his home Comment from : @southernlight6 |
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A big red flag for me are lies Even a "white" lie, sends my trust and respect out the window Honesty, even tough love honesty, is the way to go Comment from : @shakingbirdart |
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Someone who tell you he loves you and hasn't even met you in real lifebrbrSomeone needybrbrSomeone who doesn't respect your boundaries Comment from : @beccawolfe777 |
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If he tells you he’s no good for youbelieve him! That is NOT a cry for you to save him Run, girl!! Comment from : @justCallMeSil |
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YOU FORGOT TO MENTIONED THE ONES THAT ARE THE OPPOSITES TO WORKAHOLIC S… THE ONES WHO ARE LAZY AND JUST WORK FEW HOURS A WEEK AND PRETEND TO BE ACTIVE BIT THEY ARE NOT👍🏼 Comment from : @RosseAconseja |
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Thank You Comment from : @monikalipskakowal7104 |
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Wish I had this information 20 yes ago! What6 interesting from your video is that I recognize several red flags in me like workaholic, dad issues Wow! OK now and did the work but I lost a couple of really great guys Comment from : @wandadenny1944 |
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Not even asking about you Your passions etc zthey don't even know and another one being put off cause they think your alot older and may put them off Comment from : @bridgetmenham6686 |
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$ issues with no efforts to resolve to complain with no efforts for personal advancement such as work overtime, get a side jobbrIf they are always in the hole but not willing to do the adult steps to get out they are going to see the $ answer is you and continue to do minimum Comment from : @missindependentmyway2015 |
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Never have long distance relationship online Comment from : @asamanyworlds3772 |
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