5 Common Behaviors That Kill Relationships

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Comment from : @Psych2go

me and my best friend starting having a toxic relationship and now i know why tysm
Comment from : @user-kl4mo5nl4t

I admit, put myself down A LOT And I am left hoping we can date again one day after breaking up We are still friends but, I have a lot of learning and healing to do And I will do my best to just be the best friend I can be for her Listen, and be there for her
Comment from : @lexystalheim7930

My ex defaulted to silence, and always got hostile if I tried to talk to her about her flawsbrI could do nothing right by the end
Comment from : @hariman7727

Yes
Comment from : @Hehehiw

so i did nothing at all :(
Comment from : @Ecandymiau8

What to do if he is the one who's giving me silent treatment
Comment from : @emychan7783

So i had this relationship few months ago and i broke up with that person because they were careless and didn't show any kind of signals that they would want to continue a relationship I though they were maybe frustrated or something or they had some sort of a mental problem but nah I think this can be a sign of number 3? They didn't relly let me know how they were feeling or something like that maybe they were insecure to tell me ig
Comment from : @rimovalsosaj1017

Beautiful healing video❤brIt made me feel ok💚
Comment from : @pradeepboteju5683

that was so relaxing and helpful thank you so much✨🤍
Comment from : @Daniel_shinobi

If they don't want you to see their text messages it means they are cheating Simple I know several "friends" who are currently cheating on their partner I don't tell because it's not my business
Comment from : @seamalulion

Here’s a tip, if you want to avoid most relationship issues, start dating people you already have a relationship I realised a lot of things from a past crush I had, that I was making excuses for them because I liked them, this isn’t healthy, and would probably take tons of talking to get through If you are already comfortable with someone and know who they are, it’s way easier to transition into a relationship rather than just someone you don’t know that you think looks attractive You might think it could ruin the friendship, but just start off doing small things to see if they would be interested
Comment from : @NikeyMiniyuh

1:54 also, if you do this, this shows you are insecure and you lack trust, which can really put a hole in your relationship
Comment from : @TheDarkSamurai

I don’t even have a bf but I am here
Comment from : @tatilop9037

HA! Jokes on you, I don’t have one!
Comment from : @ConnorCormier-pl8wu

Tbh, I don't mind them going through my phone I literally have nothing to hide The one thing I hate is trying to control me You're allowed to check my phone but don't be ridiculous and tell me "is this a guy? block them" Personally, i don't mind my partner invading my privacy as long as they don't try to control me or tell me what to do That's ridiculous
Comment from : @Broccolaicy

What if your partner is cheating does their right to privacy supercede your right to know the truth?
Comment from : @Ripcord303

I'm glad I don't have relationship
Comment from : @Azure_Gust931

When I am annoyed I give my partner the silent treatment Ik it isn’t the best way to handle a situation but after some time of the silent treatment and I am feeling better I always talk it out with my partner and apologize for giving him the silent treatment
Comment from : @Blake-the-best-tomboy-girl

Steps 2, 4 and 5 are objectively wrongbrIf your partner doesnt share messages dump them, they are likely cheatingbrYou CAN and should give an ultimatum if something is a dealbreaker for you, that way you dont waste your or theirs time!brbrAnd finally, silent treatment works, and is a MUCH better alternative to screaming at your partner when youre emotionalbr😊
Comment from : @hellothere5963

I don't even have a relationship yet i'm watching this lmao
Comment from : @alphamax115

I sometimes feel so obsessed I should respect my partners private life more
Comment from : @Animalkitrit

DamnbrRelationships are fu&#d up and hardbrBut 10 of the time, worth it
Comment from : @Pulpos999

Every single 1 of these god dam
Comment from : @adrianlowe20

how can i show this video to my 7 year long partner without hurting her?
Comment from : @imeverywhere629

Hard to respect her privacy when invading it one time lead to discovering cheating
Comment from : @johndoe5432

Also constantly trying to criticise and change your partner at every turn without just accepting them for who they are definitely pushes them away
Comment from : @Strawhat_3646

Why am I even watching this I'm gonna be alone forever and I already give up
Comment from : @panic_kz

very kewl ig?
Comment from : @ymz_023

Nobody expects you to be perfect- brbrMy narcissistic ex - that’s exactly what I expect
Comment from : @crimtan

Youtube knows I'm Desperate and I don't like it
Comment from : @cobrinaricato1981

Chat is this why she broke up with me
Comment from : @lugiebugiee

GuysbrHave you noticed the people who says they are or recently were in a relationship are mostly women or it is just me?
Comment from : @socramzetroc1535

Thank you
Comment from : @irandomlydontgiveaflyingfek

I don't really understand that For me, aggression is aggression If you don't, for example, talk about some problem for whatever reason, this does mean that you don't have enough interest in solving that problem to help the relationship Optimizing this by talking about the problem doesn't optimize anything as you wouldn't prefer the healthy relation to keeping silent in the first place This is like doing sport while you don't like it, but not even healthybrThat said, I could not imagine myself preferring being silent to a the problem in question being improved
Comment from : @atreidesson

Summarize the video:br1 Angrily reacting to criticismbr2 Disrespecting your partners privacy br3 Bringing yourself downbr4 Giving ultimatumsbr5 Giving the silent treatment
Comment from : @HUEHUEUHEPony

My partner gives me the silent treatment, she drove me into insecurity and anger idk how to communicate that I need her to share her true feelings 😕
Comment from : @vexationc-ops4449

the accuracy 🎯
Comment from : @Remueru3

21 yo never had a relationship gonna kill myself soon
Comment from : @philipweih2552

How this muttering got 12mil subs? omg
Comment from : @ukotaa

:(
Comment from : @AsvuCZ

I did notice one of these features Not in myself though but rather in my ex
Comment from : @ALLperfect21

If you are not toxic - do not watch this video Useless
Comment from : @user-ci7pe6xu1y

I’m 21 and I ain’t been into relationships yet 😭
Comment from : @jeffboi6959

Talking and communicating in a healthy way is the most important thing
Comment from : @yak6573

I have had all of these problems in my previous serious relationship and my current one I have changed my ways in last year or two though and while there are still slip ups here and there, I would say my relationship is pretty healthy now
Comment from : @Itz_Chloe_619

People that just got broken up with (33 days ago for me) 👇
Comment from : @MoltenNoob

For me, it's a partner who avoids your questions or dismisses your perspective and says "I didn't say that" When my ex lectured me in front of friends and I told her how she made me look like a fooI, she said, "I never said you were a fooI" Whenever I told her how I interpreted her words, she would say "I didn't say that" See? No answer, no confirmation or denial, just a classic evasive response
Comment from : @johnrainsman6650

Im too broken to love I guess i dont have to worry about ruining relationships anymore
Comment from : @EldritchMephi

I should have "disrespected" the privacy of one ex more I could have discovered her cheating earlier Intuitively I felt that she wasn't honest, but followed "society's norm" of "not controlling"
Comment from : @Flupflop

This really helped me realize some things I do without realizing thank you
Comment from : @somethingosewrong

Every point shes making is like: yeah obviouslyhow do those people even get into a relationship astonishes me
Comment from : @elicopter_go_brr

bull shit never been lucky with girls, and apparently, never will
Comment from : @dadancer6114

Its sad that my ex had all these traits Somehow she convinced me that its all my fault and shes in the right
Comment from : @justhenryquek

I'm constantly asking for reassurance from my girlfriend unintentionally by asking her if she's okay when I think something or I am bothering her Most times she's genuinely fine but for some unknown reason I think I'm doing something wrong I was cheated on in my last relationship of 10 years so she thinks that's why I subconsciously do it
Comment from : @phantazem9381

Realized my relationship just won't work despite all my efforts to keep it intact My ex gives so many silent treatment, easily gives out ultimatums, expects something out of me without telling me anything, and when she told me she had depression, she always brought myself down with her I was trying my best to support her but in the end it hurts us both I see now that I too have attachment issues because even if I always thought of breaking up with her, I couldn't do it And when she decided to break up with me, I instantly agreed It hurts me but I feel relieved too in some way Now I don't know if I have the balls to try to get into another relationship
Comment from : @rian7079

that intro bg music makes the video more emotional
Comment from : @helifantilanan735

Relationships are overrated AF This video is a great and useful tutorial
Comment from : @8Smoker8

The silent treatment is torture Literally torture
Comment from : @Eidolonian

I am scared to tell what i feel😭
Comment from : @Tifa_veex

I ruined my relationship by doing all these things I'm on a journey to make myself a better person now I wish I'd seen this video sooner, but I understand why my beautiful girlfriend left me I don't think I can ever fall in love again after hurting her and myself, but I can at least learn from my mistakes and live a happy, healthy life If you love someone, cherish every moment you have with them and live your best life with them Don't be like me
Comment from : @ruckus_the_ronin

My wife does 4/5 of the qualities on the weeklybrNo wonder we’re going through tough timesbrThat being said, I have things I need to work on so I’ll pray for my wife and work on myself
Comment from : @IanSCastro

This was what I was like to her :'(
Comment from : @Garblscrum

I'm listening to this for a few seconds of this girl talking about relationships I don't think she's been in too many serious relationships she's still going through puberty
Comment from : @user-rh8ge3so7t

I recently gave my partner an ultimatum… I had no other choice, I made a boundary since the beginning of the relationship, that was being crossed over all the timebrbrI tried to talk with them, try to make them see I was hurt and needed a change, but after years of talking without being heard I had no other choice
Comment from : @fella8876

Giving Ultimatums My Ex's favorite and one of the reasons I left
Comment from : @nilsingvar7319

😂😂damn only time my ex scores 5 of 5
Comment from : @edonellzrmw

More like "5 behaviors commonly present in controlling POSs" this stuff all seems like common sense Communication and honesty are important I can agree though, when a partner isn't willing or able to open up, that usually means they are healing from something and aren't quite ready for a relationship yet
Comment from : @Pallium_Industries

how do you fix number 3 bros
Comment from : @Benis6687

I never felt more called out in the first 10 seconds of a video 😮
Comment from : @aeydra

The phone thing is the only one i think most people won't see eye to eye on After all the horror stories I've heard about getting caught because of the phone, I'm good
Comment from : @burst_ch

Thanks, I had two on this list
Comment from : @Zanith113

"Constantly bringing yourself down leads to constantly needing reasurrance" (paraphrase)brWe solved this by taking turns It's like we share one full person's confidance and just pass it a frickin ball
Comment from : @thobetiin8266

Sounds like relationships are shifty
Comment from : @gabrielleete2691

My partner did all of this except the not hanging with friends she made me feel like wasn’t good enough nit picking me
Comment from : @royxl9506

I did all of this
Comment from : @victoriakalenskaya4341

If you are in a relationship and it gets to the point you are making ultimatums, it's just a sign you two aren't compatible Ultimatums don't normally work, because it's obviously something neither person is willing to compromise on since it's escalated to the point of having to make the ultimatum in the first place
Comment from : @Drewzdev

wish I saw this earlier I never saw the silent treatment as a negative thing under the idea of " if you cant say something nice don't say anything at all" But this video helped me understand that's just one perspective of it unfortunately I'm learning this too late But I hope ill have a opportunity to practice what I've learned in the future
Comment from : @nickr9689

I never had any relation and never think about this lol
Comment from : @Shad0wEmpire

I think there is a small limit to the 1st one when you have nothing but criticism and wonder if the person actually likes you
Comment from : @michealwatts7469

Mmh Funny, my wife exhibits 4 of those habits Should I worry?
Comment from : @torbenfranke1859

This is useful for friendships too
Comment from : @Rokaya-qj4ov

Behavior 6: getting kids
Comment from : @Schnapsbrennor

This just helped me so much, I know why I broke up with my boyfriend just because of this attitude
Comment from : @MsTachke

Oh, hmmmm i see i never knew going quiet was a bad thing ill try to communicate more Helpful video
Comment from : @rainbowlover8900

Completely disagree with #2brbrPhones are the number 1 source of cheating Ladies, if your man says "unlock your phone and hand it over" just do it You shouldnt have anything to hide
Comment from : @yakumotatsuro4886