How To Argue With Someone Who Won’t Listen

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LolbrbrUsing the aesthetics of a debate to determine who's losing sounds like the only real cognitive dissonance going on here
Comment from : Er ZhengXiong

Inviting someone to revisit their belief system is a very difficult task
Comment from : B Johnson

I have seen hundreds of psychology videos this one is one of my favourites, while the first video im watching from this channel Keep up the great work and save the world from ignorance
Comment from : Pted

BEN SHAPIRO used the conservative bully trope: As soon as someone says something you don't agree with, call them "dA LiBerrUL" No Ben, maybe I just don't agree with everything you say - you're NOT the voice of the republican party
Comment from : StringsTech 10927

I really wish I had watched this before prior to last Thursday!
Comment from : ProudPapaJD

Sam Harris ………
Comment from : mycaddigo

Tnanks for tbe compliment 🎉
Comment from : Inge Tanis

don't argue with pigs, you waste your breath and annoy the pigs
Comment from : bbhrdzaz

If you enter a conversation with an aim to “win”, you’ll always lose
Comment from : mellow bellow

Cognitive dissonance, sounds like hypocrisy to me Everyone is a hypocrite, soon as you can admit that you'll be better off
Comment from : Keith P

This is great advice that literally doesn't work if you're talking to someone who adores Trump or Biden Both sides of that discussion? I would love to see someone get through that cognitive dissonance That would be a video for the ages
Comment from : SaravanjaSteele

All I’m seeing is that a lot of the political spokespeople, especially on the left-wing, are under cognitive dissonance
Comment from : DemonDerpz

I’m guessing that a 45 ACP to the dome is NOT Dr Peterson’s answer …
Comment from : Semper-Vs-Tyrannus

This is,,,, a lot of work I'd rather not get into arguments with someone who won't listen, that's utterly exhausting Especially when you throw in mental health matters, gaslighting and stubborn illogical narcissists
Comment from : Ed D

Easy answer to the question Don't waste your time You will just enable them
Comment from : Patrick van meter

Looks like you got your own cognitive dissonance going on based on your examples
Comment from : KEEKER DEE

Ignorance
Comment from : Bazza Matthews

The smoking analogy is a terrible definition of cognitive dissonance IMObrSmoking makes me happybrI know smoking is slowly killing mebrI choose to do it anywaybrThere is no cognative dissonance therebrGod says not to killbrGod has killed countless peoplebrShould I accept killing or not?brThat's cognative dissonance
Comment from : Cynical Sayonara

I didn't really find this useful at all Almost all of those points could be attributed to someone who has been abused in the conversation, thereby reacting in the ways described There's nothing concrete in this video that would distinguish people who truly are exhibiting cognitive dissonance over those who have just been upset by someone
Comment from : Trenton Adams

For we mortals who don't suffer fools gladly, think of arguing with a closed mind to be like trying to teach a pig to sing You piss off the pig and frustrate yourself
Comment from : El Viejo del Mar

What about people that think men can get pregnant
Comment from : David Hayes

9:27
Comment from : Aspect Of The Archivist

1:15 I know this was one of the Cognitive Dissonance nonsense claims, but just felt compelled to point out Lung Cancer is that bad It is far worse than that bad, it is gnarly AF If you get Lung Cancer and the docs all say there is nothing that can be done you are going out by Lung Cancer, without a doubt eat the bullet instead
Comment from : DeltaBlaZe77

not sure smoking is a good example It's an addiction not a thought or ideologie
Comment from : Martin Gero

why is the transcript automatically generated in VIETNAMESE
Comment from : Jobbet

Some times leaving the conversation is the only alternative , RDJ left the interview because the interviewer was in breach of contract Asking questions that had nothing to do with the proposed subject
Comment from : Micheal Reid

This is an art
Comment from : ꧁༺Galactus༻꧂

Amazing advice Please listen to it people!
Comment from : Elisha Aldcroft

I love your videos and watch them regularly One thing that isn't mentioned that perhaps should be when considering our own cognitive dissonance is the need for humility A strong understanding that we don't know it all goes really far in our willingness to give up any dissonance that creeps into our lives Without this, we are setting ourselves up for continued self-deception
Comment from : Jon Utley

I win :)
Comment from : CutiePie Sleeps

I would disagree with the smoking one I am sure a lot of people would love to quit and know it’s a bad habit, however they have tried before and failed or the withdrawals are awful so they just give up brbrI’m trying to quit nicotine, and that is my personal experience
Comment from : NoMos

Ben Afleck is a joke and can't win an argument against 5 years old?
Comment from : bacaca23

That's all good but you're not winning the debate when they go into fight or flight mode as you call it you can use that to your advantage and not by just giving them more facts that will just make them more angry because they know they're wrong and don't want to admit it you have to Fight Fire with Fire and use psychology to win them over
Comment from : magic cheeseball

I like how he shows Barrack Obama while saying "smartest people" If 10 average humans would say something political and barack would say something too, 99,9 the arguments of the average people are better Worst president of all time
Comment from : Mondlw - LaserOne

Has anyone got a transcript of this?
Comment from : Ste Bradbury

I am curious if people can actually be perfect like that? Do you always have to pick a side and defend it? Like the biggest voices in the internet like Brett, Benn, Hasan and etc all make the mistake from the video, they seem as if they are always in the cognitive dissonance, especially when having smn pointing at their cracks in logic They never properly address those arguments br Are they so popular bcz they are pretending that their opinion is actually objective while feeding all the extremists who watch them?
Comment from : セシリア

8:26 man can smn explain this to me Did he went into dissonance bcz of his "Well, okay" as if implying Peterson lost since it seemed like the person who asked the question confirmed that JP admitted to smth that would belittle him?
Comment from : セシリア

Good information all the way up until you acted like you were going to offer real solutions and just said what not to do if they concede
Comment from : Chris Carlson

Step one: don't
Comment from : henrlima87

It is easier to walk over the line and take someone by the hand for a walk to your side than to pull them onto your side while they kick and scream and they are more likely to stay on your side if you walked there together
Comment from : Russell Sacks

And this is why I don't debate 🤷🏾‍♂️
Comment from : Steel

People who wants talk but others wants argue is big blast 😭
Comment from : Mumtaz Ansari

Here is how to win argument;brbrYou find the truthbrbrAnd to do that, put your ego aside completely and understand the other person position and opinion
Comment from : DM4Life

Use manipulation instead
Comment from : Dzhonni kihirin

Cognitive dissonance ohhhhh like ppl on Instagram ?! 😂😂😂
Comment from : Joyce G

You white people need to stop giving advice if you don't use it on your own family
Comment from : Adrian Howell

This video is arrogant
Comment from : Athena Shelly

Why would you argue with anyone that won't listen?! Except to boost your own sense of self-importance Like you tubers
Comment from : Joy Mahiko

If I showed you what I thought and I showed you what I believe but I changed my mind and so many things but still stand in my principles
Comment from : Jonh Seven

A lot of this going on now There is a comfort with lying and being lied to that is off the charts
Comment from : Craig Robinson

Because logic goes against what they want to believe
Comment from : Sinelizwi Songca

cognitive dissonance is the pit, not the push
Comment from : Stefan Clark

😂 Could you project any harder Shapiro
Comment from : REN 333

the actual leasson here is, if you want to be happier, don't argue at all, it's pointless, and you will never convince the other person anyway
Comment from : Trevor Nathan Tobin

I find it ridiculous that when youre the one trying to establish a logical argument that, when the other party goes into cognitive dissonance, you have to crack a joke brbrYou basically have to make up for their inability to be honest to themselves
Comment from : Rozen Kurosei

Imagine if everyone were simply truthful and honest 100 of the time There would be no such thing as cognitive dissonance
Comment from : John Welch

Interesting
Comment from : Sailor Green Tea

So when people pray and stand in their faith and their prayer gets answered despite logic, how do we explain that?
Comment from : Ka La

Hey, great video but the audio transcript is totally messed up It doesn't match the audio at all 😕
Comment from : David M

I take the book that proves my point, tell the other to read it, and if they say no, I'll throw it at their blockhead
Comment from : Brian OReilly

Why did they not show the view as an example of this? Pretty rampant cognitive dissonance there
Comment from : Maureen Buck

Psychological Bobbie traps: “caught in” by means of deception!! As the term suggests; it’s already a power play between two people and assumption on having a better logic than the other person Keep your mouth shut in such situations; stupidity breeds well in ignorance
Comment from : M Fazlur Rahman

In third point “misreading nefarious intent…” You articulate ‘mind reading nefarious intent…” is this a typo or word slip?
Comment from : liz Isler

Oh and Martin Sheen is Sue Gordon's hookupbrWho is Jodie Foster's hookupbrWhich is why Jodie Foster cunted her way into graveyard shiftbrSo that she could slang opiates on graveyardbrbrThese are all facts that can be readily established by anyone who bothered to actually investigate these circumstances
Comment from : Ariel Traasdahl

This is part and parcel of the problem with opiate use and addiction present in the intelligence community and in our political systembrbrThat is by far the number one factor that adversely affects our national security posture and the integrity of our political systembrbrBill Maher, who I just saw here, is an opiate addictbrbrTrack people's blinking ratebrThat's one of the easiest ways to detect opiate use over time
Comment from : Ariel Traasdahl

“The most dangerous cognitive dissonance you’ll encounter is your own” mm, I dunno, there’s cognitive dissonance out there that means some people want to kill other people
Comment from : AndyGHKFilm

It's silly to think that logic and reason are inate human traits, when all human history demonstrates the exact opposite Humans are an irrational, emotional, instinctive alpha predator speices, & those looking for a fight are looking for the fight, they didn't show up to debate philosophy or reason, or logical arguments They just want to win a fight
Comment from : SeaJay Oceans

you misspelled jon stewart
Comment from : San Anton

If you were defending ben shapiro there i would have flippedbr“Why can’t you admit you’re on the left”brThat makes no logical sense to come out of someone’s mouth
Comment from : me me Natsuki!

Isn't arguing a negative thing? Could you change it to "communicating"? I'd be grateful if you could kindly clarify me this :)
Comment from : Helena in the Wild

znation clipnice great show
Comment from : whats right

This will not work for those whose conscience, self and world vision are seared permanently sealed Like 2Corinthjans 4:4 Won't work with many whose bread is buttered on the wrong sidebrTheir income, lively hood, societal and cultural image is staked in this Those who belong to the wring peerage Their are still hits, contracts on lives Nameless bureaucrats, disappeared a US Senator
Comment from : Flash Washington

If a wise man has an argument with a fool, the fool only rages and laughs, and there is pno quiet and seek the life of the upright -Proverbs 29:9
Comment from : NonExistent

I stopped trying
Comment from : Dan

I agree 100with what you said What's on stake though ,for exemple , something very important to convey expecially to your young adult children which is either discarted or snobbed as bs ,might make you react with anger Sometime enough is enough
Comment from : Giovanna Moro

The three key mindsets to change someone’s mind who won’t listen: br brBe curious: Instead of trying to prove your point or convince them of your view, try to understand why they think the way they do and what are their underlying assumptions or values Ask open-ended questions and listen actively to their answersbr brBe respectful: Instead of judging or criticizing them for their beliefs or opinions, try to acknowledge their perspective and find some common ground or shared interests Show them that you respect them as a person and that you are willing to learn from thembr brBe humble: Instead of acting like you know everything or that you have the final word on the topic, try to admit your own limitations or uncertainties and express your willingness to revise your views if presented with new information or evidence Show them that you are open-minded and flexible
Comment from : Sandeep

dont drag Frank Yang into this 😂
Comment from : Beau Sachs

stopping smoking is painfull lol ok
Comment from : shaftlamer

All reddit users be like
Comment from : The government doesnt care about you

Your presentation is biased, slanted more towards the liberal crowd You have consistently cast conservative figures (such as Jordan Peterson) in a bad light), a subtle use of artifice and innuendo I personally could defeat YOU in any debate based on a close examination of your presentation style and other verbal cues Dr Peterson would wipe you up
Comment from : DL PERK