Название | : | They’re interested (but emotionally distant) @SusanWinter |
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He's incompetent and out of your league Comment from : Lua Bahia |
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This also goes for women too Comment from : Donald Gansky |
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I love this advice How long would you set that time frame? Comment from : Astrids Allerlei |
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Women are like this too I spent the better part of 2 years going through this Finally moved on Her brother later told me that she had been hurt badly in a previous relationship Afterwards she said that she would never love again She never married and that's been 50 years Comment from : James Crawford |
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Noah Your answer can be found in the Seals and Crofts song: 'Closer' 😍😍 Comment from : larry |
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I'm emotionally damaged from childhood trauma and verbal abuse It should've never happened to me in the first place Comment from : AspieGamer1986 |
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If they’re distant, they’re not interested Just playing games Move on 🤙🏼 Comment from : Minoplis |
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Im dating a girl who seems emotionally distant She was emotionally abused by her ex of 10 years It was also him who ended the relationship Am I having any chance or is it a complete waste of time and energy? I see so much in her and can imagine us having a wonderful life together Yet it feels like she takes centuries I'm a bit devastated Comment from : Derick Richard |
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I just ended a situation with a man who was this way I told him it felt like he was interested in me more like a friend than romantically He didnt answer my question he asked why i thought that I explained he just kinda came off as not very excited about me He didn't initiate communication after that so I gave up People who want to date should try harder to show interest Comment from : Hopefully222 |
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Also add to the fact that YOU MUST PROVE YOUR WORTH TO HIM Yes, I did write that in all caps, for a reason Many women are not worthy of the man Therefore, good men will not show their love, or show interest, until the woman proves that she is a real soul, with good character, and long-term intentions Comment from : Mark Fennell |
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Susan Winter offers good real world practical advice I really enjoy her videos and approach to dating I experienced something like this before, and I took this approach I ended up over giving, functioning because it was the only way dates would happen, or conversations would occureventually, I had to consider my needs and investing in something with little to no mutual return Thank you Susan! Comment from : D |
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I’m in this place myself he likes to cuddle up to me He wants to be with me , he just seems to not emotionally open up brHe’s been hurt and cheated on , i was going to say that be vulnerable and open ❤ Comment from : Angelina Samson |
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📌SORRY BUT MEN ARE FOR WOMEN AND WOMEN ARE FOR MEN👈 Comment from : Freddie Stranger |
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GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW Comment from : Freddie Stranger |
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Struggling with this too, he initiates but I'm not getting much intimacy from him and sticks to surface level topics Also wondering if he takes a while to warm up or if he's just not that into me Confusing Comment from : Emma Harrop |
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It’s their lost not mine 😂 they wanna be distant and I’ll be more distant and mirror their ass lol Comment from : Director Clark Monroe |
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How long should you invest before it’s time to walk away? Comment from : SpicyLunarDust |
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Hi Susan,brbrI love your advise! You open up to a multi-scenariosbrThanks Comment from : Sarah T |
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Ive been seeing someone on and off for almost a year He is a lot older than me and we have had a few serious talks about what we are, want, etc He has talked about his past marriage before, so I feel that he may not be over that relationship The guy is married to his career and works a lot, I can appreciate that since it motivates me and I myself stay very busy He has questioned my feelings, attraction, intentions with him and might not seem to believe me I am a lot younger, lot of admirers, busy social life, and doing good for my age I am truly in love with this man and have showed him in many different ways Since we are mostly a long-distance "relationship" we hardly see each other Sometimes we will text all day long and other times we've gone a whole week without talking He says he loves me and wants a committed relationship, talks about moving in together in a few months and how he's dying to have a child with me He's displayed some narcissistic traits and seems emotionally distant When do I throw the towel in? I love this man and it feels like his feelings are true, but there's a lack of commitment and consistency My last love prior to meeting him passed away and I can not afford to have another tough heartbreak Am I getting played? Is there hope? Should I try to just move on? Gosh, I wish people could just be honest Comment from : Kelly Lozano |
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If with an avoidant type, would that explain why they don't ask how I'm doing or show interest in my day? But just ask if I'm OK?brShe seldom asks how I am, what I've been upto or anything I'm just trying to zip up everything before I decide to jump ship She's naturally mysterious in what she's been doing Comment from : Mr Simo |
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What if you’ve found a fantastic guy but you’re afraid of falling in love with him because you have abandonment issues? What will get my brain to relent? Comment from : Nichole Barnes |
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I am definitely doing things right! He has been opening up about his family issues, important thoughts, wanting to take photos with me and recently coming over near my workplace to have dinner It is def slow though Comment from : ciggy twiggy |
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To me that means they have another woman in their life aka not really all that interested Comment from : DATING DIARIES |
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I’ve had this twice It’s tiring And it’s best for me to walk away Comment from : MJE LDN |
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Delicate, not forceful Comment from : thesunrising |
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From a guys point of view, I’ve noticed that wearing your heart on your sleeve does make you come off as needy to women and most (not all) will lose interest fast That’s the main reason I feel we do that Comment from : Ianbear64 |
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This has been very draining for me Gosh! Comment from : Chibanda Mwende |
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You speak so nicely 😊 Comment from : archita chaudhury |
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Susan, is expecting someone to text maybe once each day before the first date asking too much or is this an example of emotional distance? Comment from : JM |
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Susan ❤️ Comment from : Whacking with Jesus |
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Hello Susan Comment from : Angela Ferreira |
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Very wise advice I would add WE can’t MAKE anybody (fill-in the blank) All WE can do is create a comfortable environment in which the other human feels safe in being themselves and opening upbrHowever, like Ms Susan said, time limit - bc is anyone here really looking for a new “project”?brMany humans have low or nonexistent emotional intelligence Sigh… Comment from : Angela |
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The time frame is important Comment from : Baljinder Kaur |
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What is an appropriate time frame? Comment from : John Henderson |
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You look pretty Comment from : eejay_w |
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I’ve been seeing this guy for a year now but I found out he is still seeing another that he been for a years brI love this guybrHe is caring and he is supportive but he admitted that he can’t decidebrI know sounds stupid Comment from : lenibeth nolasco |
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Susan, are you able to suggest a time period?brbrPerhaps a percentage- if you're in the dating phase for 2 months and decide to put a date on the calendar for how long to give and hold space and see That would be shorter than if you were doing the same thing within a 2 year relationshipbrbrI think some kind of rule of thumb would help people contextualize this advice into appropriate limits for themselves Thanks for your consideration! Comment from : enarcmcfly |
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Thank you Susan 😊, I love that you address the situation from all sides and aspects in a moderate and rational manner in all your videos, I appreciate your experience and effort to guidance advices🙏🏻 Comment from : Nina |
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They want tidbits of attention and care but on their convenience and measure They HAVE to be better or you'll never be happy alongside them Comment from : smonaful |
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You’re fantastic, Susan THANK YOU, from my heart, for all the excellent, spot-on, sage, and absolutely helpful advice you give Comment from : forestsprite11 |
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Is it best to block someone who rejected you??? Comment from : Jean Louis |
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🤍 Comment from : malwina swiatek |
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Looking fabulous 😊🔥❤️ Comment from : littlefishell81 |
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My mindset and mentality towards relationships has changed over the years, but I get very annoyed and irritated when people call in a skill set or learnable skill, it's long and difficult to explain Comment from : nobodysperfect06 |
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timeframe is so important i learned that from you! :) Comment from : Dominic Cobb |
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I am in this exact situation Comment from : noaahhh_g |
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Amazing Very helpful Comment from : Katie Kelman |
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Susan I really need your help I can’t breath anymore Please Susan please Comment from : IIMartianII |
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You help us to open our eyes and see clearly Thanks from Sweden Comment from : Tamora P |
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"If you’re angry, bitter and secretly hate women, don’t be surprised if you keep getting rejected Women smell hidden agendas better than men every could”brbrThat quote does piss me off because it is sadly true, the reason why it pisses me off is because women can have the exact same mindset or feelings towards men but there will be plenty of guys in the world willing to overlook that in women,women will still have plenty of options or still be able to get a boyfriend even if they are bitter or angry towards menbrbrBut if a guy is like that towards women, his chances are doomed right from the start Overall, an angry, bitter woman has a much better chance of getting a boyfriend than the other way around Comment from : initiatorhater0688 west |
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Hi Susan Awesome content and person! Love you so much already! brDo you think the range of time maximum to give to a person that seems hot n cold is 3 months to maximum 6 ? What do you think? I know It's hard to tell brYou're fantastic x Comment from : joyful soul |
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Looking lovely today Susan! Fantastic video :) Comment from : Tayo |
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Great advice! The problem is know to implement a time frame without seeming like it’s a demanding ultimatumbrAlso knowing exactly how long to give Comment from : Globalgoddess |
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The time frame is the key Comment from : I Gatti |
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How feminine you are always and in a strong maner Fabulous 🤗😌😇 Comment from : White Owl |
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After my divorce, no woman will ever see that side of me again That’s reserved for me alone brbrWomen want what they don’t want and don’t want what they want That is ladies logic today and is why I will never share my feelings with her even if I’m insanely attracted to her No thanks, not worth my heart and soul Comment from : Jake Sanchez |
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Susan, you are so nice and articulate with these issues It’s really helping me 🙌🏼 Comment from : CyprusHot |
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Better word for your subs is community Time to move on from the other word you’ve used Comment from : Simone Says |
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great advice Comment from : AzumaRikimaru |
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Susan you're always illimunating with your words and insights I could listen to you day long Comment from : Moon by sa ☆ |
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Susan, you look absolutely sensational 😍 Comment from : Gabrielle T |
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Okay let’s get real This guy is hiding something secondly I’m 100 percent sure this guy is dismissive avoidant and he is not that interesting Meantime he is probably seeing other women too so please don’t waste your time with someone who is mentally emotionally unavailable He will never change never Comment from : Arzoo Ray |
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Gr8 one Susanlooking fantastic in blacklove the still shot promo pictures of you too Comment from : Sean-X M |
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Simple you date people that are emotionally available So many fish in the sea its a waste of time otherwise Time is the most valuable thing Comment from : Moises Castro |
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I am in a similar situation with a lady friend Comment from : Little Drummer Boy 1970 Little |
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Noah, look into the story of your namesake! Jesus loves you, will forgive you, and deliver you! Comment from : Little Drummer Boy 1970 Little |
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simple, they want your interest and attention but they don't want you if a man really wants you, he will choose you Comment from : TheSunshinefee |
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that means you are just an option Move on! Comment from : 57pixels |
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I’m a new subscriber! I look forward to finding myself so I can find a good man!! Comment from : assertyourself |
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You look so elegant and beautiful today! You are elegant and beautiful always but I just want to tell you haha Comment from : Genevieve Tang |
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Big No As an emotional person this type of guy is a red flag It’s not enough for me The challenge loses it’s appeal quickly Comment from : April227DB |
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Susan you are so articulate Comment from : Tamilla Hi |
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Susan bSummer/b -:) You are a Star Thank you Comment from : DamianSeverin |
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Excellent ! Thanks 🙏🏻 Comment from : Rd Chakraborty |
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I love ur intake on this BUT if the individual isn’t ready emotionally , they shouldn’t initiate anything brbrAt least 2-3 months of probation of deciding what to do Comment from : Eve Heart |
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excellent video thank you Comment from : meggyespite |
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As I have learnt and become great at it
brI have zero tolerance for nonsense This is called the power of walking away
brAs your value is too precious to be tampered with and embroiled in toxicity You shouldnt have to strategize to make the relationshiop work Any type of behaviour thats not incongruent with your values and the relationship, walk away immediately Pay attention to what people DO not what they SAY
brThis is extremely empowering and you will start to realise your true worth and that you have so much to offer
brUltimately the person you deserve and desire will eventually come into your life
brGOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOU TOO BEAUTIFUL SUSAN!!!😘😘😘 Comment from : Adriano Valentino AUSTRALIA |
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Very appealing video to watch Comment from : Lightspeaker |
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I get really upset reading all these negative comments about moving forward quickly, by resistance and emotional distance and not giving it a real chance
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brIs that how the majority of daters do today?
brI really hope there will be more patience when / if you find a partner who is later to open up to the wounds they may have
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brI agree that there must be development and openness in the relationship, but it may be that a gem is hidden in the closed man or woman brAs always a superb video Susan :) Comment from : Claus |
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Hi Susan, I used the pick up line on a lady "Let me talk to you about Amway" She burst out laughing!!! :) :) Comment from : D RadarMan |
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