The Hard Part Of A Relationship - Jordan Peterson

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Like they think it would fix itself and you could read them like a book
Comment from : Luiz Miguel

More random ranting by this clown
Comment from : Leon Kowalski

The problem with that is when little girls are groomed the predator repeatedly tells us its our fault, wecare bad, we will get in trouble, our parents will hate us, people will make fun of you and the best is your daddy will kill me and he will go to jail for murder forever Or your aunt( his mom my aunt) will be heartbroken As a five year old you feel the burden of everybodys pain unhappiness and hatredbrAt the same time they buy you stuff and candy And that perverted relationship of love and affection , reward if you perform , and fear of the consequences get all mixed upand it carries into future relationships One is terrified they will be blamed even though logic tells you you were 5 years old You were a baby The fear of being used goods is profound And it is much more complicated than just deciding to open up
Comment from : SHELBY HAMBRIGHT

My solution would be easier Walk away
Comment from : C B

Why is he so seorous all the time?
Comment from : JasonX

Shaitaan use teachers and scholars to fill poisonous thoughts in humans as well brThis teacher uses a set of teachings based on fact and they are true but along with them he teaches some ways and thought process which leads to leaving people astray brEvery human needs purification and if a teacher is not completely purified he or she should always remind people while teaching that its my personal value / thinking / choice , only Prophetic and Divine knowledge is 100 percent pure and truth and well explained as its from the Creator of everything So humans should remind themselves to always stay humble when are doing a great work of acknowledging other humans 🌹🌹🌹
Comment from : Aoun

Every god damn day😢
Comment from : ENTITY unknown

Expertise in psychology is no way to live life
Comment from : Jeff S

I wish my problem had a solution But there is no fix for ASPD
Comment from : Eva Braun

I can’t upvote JP enough
Comment from : Kimberly Hartman

What you resist persists
Comment from : David O Brien

Bam
Comment from : Drew Ledbetter

"or some goddamn thing" 🙄
Comment from : Dy Mays

Wut
Comment from : Daniel Rourke

I really like the way Peterson seems to be coming from a place not only of psychology but of moral philosophy That's the thing that is so lacking in our culture today and yet it is vital to practically everything
Comment from : Tabitha Ormiston-Smith

BLESSED BE GOD BLESSED BE HIS HOLY NAME !!!
Comment from : Mary Boisvert

Sounds like my first/only marriage
Comment from : Ben

Hurt people hurt people
Comment from : avalanche0891

Live in the presentbrYesterdays the pastbrTomorrows the future
Comment from : Linda

I really, really tried talking with her about everything that happend to herbrI hate that I had to leave her
Comment from : C

Mr Jordan Peterson, you are such an intelligent, insightful, helpful man, far above the average person You generally know and exercise abilities to be respectful to those whom you are with However, when it comes to faith, almost anyone's faith, and reverence toward God and His holy name which most use in reference to Him, you seem to not even have the slightest hint that taking God's name in vain (using it as a swear word) is wrong in most people's eyes and according to God's Word(Holy Bible) I admire all the mind-blowing(to me) knowledge and in many cases, wisdom, but it's disappointing to hear that swearing coming from such an extraordinarily intelligent person it seems that for someone with such a vast vocabulary, and the desire you possess for people to learn how to be strong, assertive, responsible & respectful humans, that you would exercise creativity & restraint when it comes to cursing with the name of our Godbr Hope this reaches you somehow so you can at least be aware & think about itbr Thanks sincerely :)
Comment from : Coffee Hunter

bWARNING/bbrDiving into trauma without all the necessary help & emotional capacity can be DEADLY
Comment from : Chris

🙏🏻
Comment from : Realness Warriors

You can sort out one issue, and a second issue, and as you go down the line, you see the abyss for what it is, because they still interact with the perpetrators who are actively trying to keep their control over your partner, and it isn't long after that, when you decide if they have no real interest in working it out because of some deep confirmation of their worldview that they enjoy, and you're deciding to be out of there
Comment from : Meg Nakano

Sounds all too familiar 👩‍🦰
Comment from : Mitchell Kasdin

Its narcissism and its incurable Thats why children should be humanity's #1 priority The psyche splits when the child is traumatized and the child grows smaller and the shadow grows larger until there is no child left It's like being possesed essentially It's Heartbreaking 😢💔
Comment from : T H

Fix your trauma before it weighs you down The weight is not worth your future
Comment from : Jango Fett

Immature partners are scary
Comment from : R J

Honestly best take away for relationships Always be honest, always look to improve Nobody is perfect and that's okay
Comment from : MushaMushaMan

This happened with so many people in my life So sad
Comment from : Retrovoid

Just stay single
Comment from : Oscar

sounds like he has some unresolved trauma there he should maybe find a certified psychologist that can help him
Comment from : Eden the cleric

Complacent ingorance is always easier than confrontation, but that bnecessary/b confrontation is ALWAYS better
Comment from : Beregond

Few things are as hard as carrying your partners baggage espeically when it comes to abuse When the one you hate causes many problems in your relationahip and nothing you can legally do and every day you have to carry thwt burden brbrAs a wise man once said you are gonna have to carey that weight
Comment from : Roland Deschein

I told my gf at the time about my best friend’s suicide and how it messed me up A month later she was saying she was suicidal and that I had to give her money No more opening up for me
Comment from : Kraft Dinner64

I hate when this happens People latch on to whatever they can for an excuse to give up and fail If something happened when you were 5, are you really going to waste the human in you on self pity We are wonderful inside and out, and should make ourselves useful Help better the world while we’re here United we are stronger than ever
Comment from : PurgeWorld

I wish my wife would have sorted it out has led to our divorce due to her childhood trauma
Comment from : Troy King

My husband has been carrying his traumatic childhood around fir 60 yrs It’s killing US
Comment from : Jhodie

Real Dump self-unaware mentaloids with child traumas
Comment from : sazanchik

This is so so true and the hardest part of completely opening up in a relationship the destruction is inevitable when you bury these experiences
Comment from : Kathleen Shelley

When I feel emotional I simply say, "EMOTIONS BEGONE!"
Comment from : Leperface

Unfortunately as a male most bad things aren't talked about as it's seen as a weakness
Comment from : David Kelly

It was me, I was the partner 😂 Lost the love of my life due to my insane behaviour
Comment from : Haze der

This is some of the best relationship advice
Comment from : StaminUp Time

Bruh
Comment from : Swole Kitchen Llc

His wife must love all of these videos
Comment from : Despair Knot

Time heals all wounds
Comment from : Dreamer151

I wish I had someone like Jordan earlier in life that could have advised me on so many aspects on myself in relationships with others That would have been so helpful
Comment from : Phillip

Its hard to understand strong minded women
Comment from : Jay

Who can not LOVE this man! He sure know when to swear to emphasize correctly! Pure genius flex!❤
Comment from : Figskater

Or you just leave and don’t put that burden on your shoulders
Comment from : lolroflkartoffel123 a

And the Canadian govt has decided he needs “reeducation”
Comment from : UVBluesman

Who has the right to force a partner to have to relive that memory again after spending a lifetime blocking it out I'd fucking leave you there You don't decide when someone has to deal with anything Try being abused and being put in that position yourself and it wouldn't be the same answer
Comment from : Baz Jones

glad I'm single
Comment from : Elias Netto

That is the truth My wife and I spent years realizing that we had to just put it all out on the table and sort it out Never found time, carried the issues around and fought We FINALLY put it all out there, kicked and screamed and after months of exposing the scabs we’re now healing And the horrible weight we both carried is lifting And we grew together How lucky we are
Comment from : Fishy Hippo Rhino Raff

If you talk it out, you won't act it out I have men approaching me that I can't handle They have control and maybe I am dealing with stuff I have an unbelievable story because after my divorce and after many types of therapeutic things I used, I became a healer So my ex is fine but my family has been destroyed because high profile people couldn't seem to back off when I was clearly giving signals I couldn't handle their approach Which included entourages and family I'm literally coping with how they left my life After seeing what I did to survive I was their hidden counselor Their power was like a dark cloud over my life All my friends were coopted Surrounded by people I don't really know I was raised in poverty In a way I did seven years of college to change my family paradigm People know I'm intelligent That's why they clung to me They used to do that to Bob Dylan thinking he had all the answers He ran like I ran when you get engulfed by people who follow you
Comment from : Barbara Brennan

Been there with someone
Comment from : HSF ent

That's why Leon Edwards is in a African tribe
Comment from : Lucky Craft BS

Aka Jordan Peterson realizes he's autistic
Comment from : Ogre

Take out the gd n top notch
Comment from : Brian Whisenant

Man, this guy is a godsent Everyone should memorize certain things that he says in his lectures So amazing
Comment from : Astral Ascendance

I Identify as an Apache Attack Helicopter

Don't marry women who were abused, only idiots marry women with trauma, given the 90 divorce rate of traumatized women
Comment from : I Identify as an Apache Attack Helicopter

Idk the way he flippantly talked about her being abused doesn’t sit right with me It’s like he’s blaming the theoretical partner for their abuse like their behaviour is just an inconvenience to him and not a source of inconceivable pain to the person involved Idk maybe I’m being too sensitive but I think this could have been phrased differently so that people who have been abused don’t just see themselves as an annoyance in this scenario
Comment from : Jessica M

Dr JP brings up the extra stuff that most people don't talk about No holding back True passion for speaking truth That's a rare gem amongst us as humans ❤
Comment from : Cadence James

Yeah, "thanks dad" for your part in a lifetime of trauma I'm still trying to process it 🖕 I thought I was done but it rears its ugly head when I least expect it
Comment from : Annie J

So how do you sort it out?
Comment from : Implypie Meme

What's the background music called?
Comment from : votingalloy

sounds like Jordan having a cathartic moment
Comment from : sadreiq𓆩♡𓆪

How do you go about this?
Comment from : loomenate

Why does he use bad language and is also a Catholic It is a bit insulting to the rest of us Christians
Comment from : Chris M

Let them cry Ur trauma is yours
Comment from : James Drenning

I do not forgive or forget the things that have been done to me I also refuse to let those things impact the life I have created Be strong and let nothing hold you back
Comment from : Chantelle Beyer

lol this sounds too specific
Comment from : Fv234pop

Anyone have the link to the full clip?
Comment from : Zilke Lourens

It's so easy to talk and talk and talk when you make up such a simple world in your head
Comment from : Tower of Babble

Damn who offended doc?
Comment from : Jash Shah

Ostracize You from the family
Comment from : Susy Hebner

Called ptsd
Comment from : Tuco

Very true but do not like the language
Comment from : Cassandra Goff

My husband not long ago got angry at somerhing and treated me really horribly I said I am angry because you hurt me without a reason Five minutes he came back and started crying and told me why he acted that way It broke my heart to see him like this and we talked about it and I know this trauma will not go away suddenly but I know now what not to do or how I can make him feel safe and less triggered Communication is all and sometimes you have to go hurtful and torturing dark places to be able to understand and help each other I am so glad my husband trusts me so much to talk about these dark spots in his soul
Comment from : Lulus Playhouse

Yes, and to poke someone to a breaking point without the support and tools to work it through is cruelbrAnd anyone who says "or some god-damned thing" about abuse is an absolute dickbrJP shows his true ass
Comment from : Jackie