| Название | : | You MUST Walk Away from These People | Jordan Peterson on TOXIC Relationships |
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1:16 to 1:48 the most important part Comment from : Frank Drebin |
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Do you have any fucking idea how hard it is to find people that genuinely want the best for you? and on top of that to be close friends with them? I've experience either people shitting all over me in a friendship financially and emotionally OR being used as an accessory friend who is really only around to make the other feel better about themselves You can have both of them, I will die a miserable lonely fucking asshole and be glad about it when my times comes cause I will know I made no pathway for any people like that to ever enter my life again You want to roll the dice with people go ahead I hope you find better people than I did Comment from : Neromax |
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Need to start chastising myself Comment from : Richard Murray |
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Okay Comment from : Richard Murray |
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I loved my oldest brother but he had trauma I couldn't relate to and I had trauma he couldn't relate to and it was a never ending conflict of "why can't you see things my way" all while our entire family battled alcoholism He's passed now due to brain cancer and although there's relief from the never ending conflict, there's still a void there that used to love him but didn't know how Everything felt like the wrong thing Comment from : JJTrades |
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I walked away from someone I cared about dearly, after slowly realizing after 10 years I or our relationship didn't matter or was cared about at all Comment from : Mystify Me |
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Our gut tells us when it's time to leave but we don't listen Comment from : Michigan |
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How can you genuinely be around people who want the best for you when those people don't exist in society Comment from : Francine Webster Clarke |
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Or maybe they will die from it Comment from : Mandooze |
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I'm the one who needs change I'm taking the first step Comment from : KG M |
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There is no way out now I gave it all away for the good of others Now, I am hiding from him and just waiting for death I no longer even care which one of us it is that dies Comment from : I am Just saying |
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I’m fucking trying I know I play around a lot but I’m trying Comment from : Buffalo Shrimp45 |
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They can’t change and only get worse the older they get, Comment from : Phoenix Risin’ |
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Narcissists cannot be good honest friends Comment from : Agata De La Parra |
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Easier said than done Comment from : David Evans |
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This helped me walking away from a toxic relationship Thank you Comment from : Erik |
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Thank you for it brI looked for advice bc of an issue i have with a friend who gets himself into the same painful situations bc he refuses to take action/responsibility for himself I was kinda shocked at myself when last time he called i was simply done being empathetic and being used as emotional dumpster 🤷🏻♀️ Comment from : Xiallaci |
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Just one issue I feel you are being too general, generous on your idea of women in the workplacebr My experience is that they can be devious and undercutting of other colleague wether they be male or female br the book Psychopath in the Workplace comes to mind, Never discount the female species in this dynamic, women have changed, not all I suggest but there are those who are the proverbial Pitbulls Again wonderful you gave me cause to think Thankyou Comment from : Valli P |
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Daily newsroom I will listen read, watch gates, wait door In the sycamore I will sit in the sycamore I will climb Comment from : Qoh |
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And one if it’s your other half and you have a child with them and they just stay in the negative never think about you and your needs just what they want Comment from : Lennys exotic family |
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Think of limiting your exposure to toxic people the way employees in a nuclear reactor limit exposure to radiation by wearing a dosimeter--once the meter shows one has eached their limit for a particular time interval they get the hell out of therebrbrBy the way Doc I'm a certified lifeguard and the last thing you ever want to do is try to talk to a drowning person the technique we were taught in the United States when I gained my certification was to first throw them a life preserver or use a polebrAnd not get in the water if you can avoid itif you do have to swim out to rescue a drowning person you swim with your head above water and never lose sight of them and when you get within several feet you slip underwater come up from behind them and get them in the equivalent of a half Nelson while propping their lower back up with your hip you have to take control of the individual and once they start breathing feeely because you are supporting them they stop fighting and flailingbrIf they get ahold of you you're basically dead because the death grip of a drowning person is panic and adrenaline induced and their strength is superhuman at that moment Comment from : Mr Jake |
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So powerful Comment from : Anjali Dahiya |
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👍 Comment from : Karen Zilverberg |
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real Comment from : Cyrus Cruz |
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My father told me similar advice One professor told us similar advice way back in schoolbrI never understood until my 30s that by simply being around certain people, it is so easy to get dragged down, tangled, and drowned Friends, colleagues, and even some romantic interest whom I just thought so dearly of, I had to let go of for my own bettermentbrSometimes, I miss them and I think of the memories I share & I come back to listen and remind myself of this Comment from : case by case |
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Noooooo wrong other way round , What are you supposed to say (oh yes ) brI will stay with while you beat me lifeless ! And that's ok you don't have to change its ok , your all good oh dearie me l must deserve it Comment from : Big Debs |
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This is my entire family and I will have to let go of all of them I am devastated and pained at the thought of letting them go but i have prioritized myself over EVERYTHING Comment from : shashi |
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I had to say goodbye to my brother and his family I will miss him but he can be replaced with people who care about me snd want nothing Comment from : Bonnie Dunbar |
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I need to go So damn true Comment from : Carol |
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Thanks Comment from : Peter Harris |
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You’re either with me or against me Comment from : Cruce Entertainment |
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It is a good statement for the person who has a bad vices Comment from : Shellamadre |
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I cut off direct communication with my sister due to her horrible personality and volatile behavior (after many failed attempts to come to some understanding) It was difficult and painful, however after going no contact for a mere month she took it upon herself to go see a therapist! We're talking again, and she's doing much better Our relationship has been mended Your words of wisdom change lives Comment from : Akiera |
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Hitch hiking doesn't work for me Comment from : Jo Ann Boyd |
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These were the principles that led me to end my relationship with my ex-wife, it feels very vindicating to hear it articulated in this way Comment from : Nathan Atkins |
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37M with stressed induced shingles and bells palsy just to add the icing on the cake I'll say that I'm not ready but I feel like there is no other choice but to leave I've stayed for so long because we have a child together and i felt like staying was the best option but it sure has taken its toll on me Comment from : La Sancha Adventures |
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This is nothing by the truth, you help them out by walking away , people have to fall so many times until they learn Comment from : kisai p |
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5:41 thank you Comment from : AJ Craft |
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Actually you have to puch someone who's drowinng in hyteria Learn that at 12 years old Comment from : Anna Oo Photo |
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Good! Comment from : Eleni Villios |
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And when society as a whole is toxic and sabotaging and taking yer peace away for many time? Comment from : Raul Seixas da Silva Sauro |
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i have left and i am not going back Comment from : Dr Soniya Sinha |
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Curatirea relatiilor karmice e necesara pt dezvoltate personalabrEu am renuntat plecand la toate relatiile toxice Comment from : Ana Ranja |
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They wouldnt do it if they thought you were not on the hook And theres thousands of years of intelligence that has perfected the way to put you and keep you on that hook Stuff science hasnt even begun to understand Comment from : Tom |
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The baby boomers piss me off the most Im glad god gave me the power to walk away instead of crack one of yhere skulls Comment from : Lee Anderson |
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JP is looking rough in that thumbnail I hope he’s doing ok Comment from : Nicole B |
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Which people? Comment from : Juliane Taylor |
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Vůbec se neměňte :DbrbrJste hříčka evoluce!!! Jste fakt zajímavý!brbrSice jste tak moc zajímavý, že s vâma nechci sdílet a i stejný kontinent, ale zase jsem přesvědčen, že nějaký psychiatr na vás jednou postaví s out kariéru a napíše na základě zajímavé případové studie dokonce i zajímavou knihu Comment from : Invictus Maneo |
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I daydream about being dead constantly Im so scared of not raising my 2 year old full time, and her mother holds all the cards At first it was a blessing that she had rich parents, but now she holds all the cards, and our relationship is beyond fixable Yes, i could improve in alot of ways But i could never be abusive to her the way she is to me Id do anything for a smidge of love, support, or compassion But I'm a man, so who gives a shit right? Idk how to explain it, idk why I'm trying on a YouTube comment Just this is not tolerable anymore I got Dealt a tough hand, I've played it horribly, and everyday i wake up im annoyed that i did I love your videos JP Im too weak to practice your advice, but theyre the only thing at all that helps me keep breathing Comment from : Neil Schoenberg |
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God, please just send one person who is truly my friend and not secretly awaiting my demise! 😢 🙏🏾 Comment from : Jennifer Frazier, LPC |
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The shepherd YOU mistreat Is walking away Comment from : Ill be dead tomorrow |
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The best thing to to do regards to family or a spouse is to leave , disappear , make your own life, sell everything and don’t associate with them if they don’t appreciate you ever again It does not change They are set in their ways and nobody is worth it No family members or partners can appreciate you while you are living make your will out to go to charity or to someone who is deserving of a better life to fu in the end if needed it’s fair to say that the people that go out of their way to their family always get treated the worst It’s a lonely world and it’s better to be alone than to spend it with toxic people Comment from : M C |
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My husband and I dated a year before I got to meet his kids,brI didn’t have kidsbrAll through high school, I babysat people I’d never met, some would come home with "whast your name again? Oh yeah, this is my friend, Guy"br…I had to leave those children alone with a stranger and their drunk mother I couldn’t take it anymore and I had to quitbr20 years later and I still miss being the best sitter ever, but I still feel just as anxious from the memories alonebrThey taught me to never be her Comment from : Tacomaisalsonachomama |
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You can't change the world You can only change you Leave the world Love everyone unconditionally and forgive all things forever And leave everything everyone 😊 Comment from : Dee Misquadis |
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Daca cunosti Libertatea si te consideri liber esti LiberbrO relatie e crestere nu distrugere reciprocabrDaca ai probleme in casnicie clar nu te potrivestibrVrajelile astea cu mintitul de sine nu s la locul lor Comment from : Ana Ranja |
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4:22 pretty much sums it up Comment from : Troy Ricketts |
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These are narcisists and borderlines Comment from : NMT Delightful Music |
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I’m walking away from Jordan Peterson because of his lying for a profit while hypocritically claiming to obey God while not teaching the truth from God and disobeying God in the process Comment from : Emily Gloeggler |
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Just leave No ultimatum! Comment from : Dee Misquadis |
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My dad sent me this ,😢 Comment from : Kana mathe productions |
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Tough decisions to make Comment from : Daumants Brūniņš |
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Im so tired of seeing Jordan P bullshit Im so sick of you youtubers replaying his crap You know whathe knows just as much as you Hes still living his life and telling you about what he thinks Can you be yourself? He knows fuck all in real life! Comment from : Johnny |
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4:42 Doctor Peterson I can’t go into exact details But here’s the basic Years ago something happened Now normally, if I was going to take personal inventory, and try to make a necessary change, I’d need to be honest and active in changing the equation overall We want a better or different X Or answer So picture a conversation 20 years later And now the person (ME or YOU) let’s say, is explaining what happened, making excuses as to why we were secretly right We haven’t changed the physical behaviors, the actual ACTIONS haven’t changed much or at all And we see it so clearly If I didn’t take DRINKING seriously enough to put it away for good If we hadn’t changed our ATTITUDES toward the calamity We deserve to be walked away from Because we will drown you, so to speak This one made me think about REAL ACTION vs KNOWING WHATS RIGHT but not acting on it Being full of crap or being a winner The single worst thing a person can have is a bad attitude The second might be being dishonest The third n final one would be LACK OF HOPE Lack of charity Lack of FAITH Comment from : JKD MERIT MASTER GROUP |
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In my case it’s my relation with my daughter which produces misery it brings fear and anxiety and panic she discarded me from her life maybe I was a toxic mother I made two errors but I always loved and protecting my daughter iam a downhill path for her so sad she did not wish me a happy Mother’s Day it just killed me inside iam alone no friends scared with mental illness panic disorder ocd depression a bit but I was positive not too long ago she abused me for six years she was suffering inside I told her I heard her and things are going to change I find it unacceptable inexcusable not to call your only parent knowing that this will break me iam already isolated so it is sadism lack of empathy sometimes I think I should disappear go away life is too shot iam 57 she said we are 35 years apart that we will never be best friends that iam just her mother that also killed me Comment from : Natalie delavie |
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And what if we have convinced ourselves that nobody really cares, maybe except our children ? Comment from : Αρτεμις Chal |
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A thousand thumbs up Comment from : Terry Smith |
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My life experience is to not trust anyone completely They can turn on you at anytime Gray divorce is proof of that fact Protect yourself in both marriage and business decesions Insurance companies will not offer divorce insurance because they know 65 will need the money Comment from : George sontag |
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No one is going to change, so you better leave now Don't procrastinate with that 😇🤗 Comment from : Dee Misquadis |
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Toxic people never change I experienced that and even if you give them a second chance they will try to bring you back to their toxic circle Even if you just re-established the relationship they will try to sound nice at first and a few minutes later you will start to see the toxic and manipulative pattern again They are sociopaths, they enjoy doing it and they cannot have healthy relationships with people, they only like to control, spy on others because they want to know everything everybody is doing, thats why they are always stalking IG and fb accounts and they will always try to play the fool saying things like "hey long time no see!" I ve lost many years of my life with people like that so if someone close to you is like that limit the relationship Everything they text or say is a new step to try to manipulate you again Comment from : flesh cork |
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What to do If Im falling for a girl that is in toxic relationship with her ex and despite they are broken up she keeps coming back to him? Comment from : tom |
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N as mai permite vreodata cuiva sa incearca dictatorial sa ma schimbe Comment from : Ana Ranja |
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Alcoholics are the most dangerous of abusiers in my experience Because in their mind and the words that are used by them "At least I have an excuse "brIt's not just the nasty words but the physical abuse as well Comment from : Lynn Wagner |
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I think we are all capable of the actions we detest in others Until we can understand that we are all fundamentally flawed we will make no progress torwards uncinditional love for ourselves or for others Comment from : Vicki Carringer |
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Big hell nah on this one I almost always agree with you but you said it yourself surgery is brutal so stfu about someone needing help Comment from : Alexander Aparicio |
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Pff another channel that just doesn’t want to show the actual content they ripped but instead shows meaningless stuff with a voice on the background Blocked from recommendations, since this is just garbage and making money of other people’s back Comment from : Nepp95 |
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Walking down an incorrugable path, jeez Jordan, how about mentioning that sometimes sick families put that on a person and it's not even true Comment from : Gail Shepley |
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Snow de Comment from : Denise Skinner |
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Loss of culture, replaced by false idols at least in America no spirituality no connection to the forest or the animals of the earth, just me me me and $$$,to top it all off people as a species are murderous deceitful wreckless etc Comment from : Dylan Kopff |
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do not cast pearls before swinebrbrDAMN Comment from : costafilh0 |
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So hard to do with family But that's it Let them drown or drown with them So sad, but it reaches a level of suffering when there is no other way Comment from : costafilh0 |
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Punish you cause your physically disabled Comment from : Randy Hudson |
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This is so what I have to do with my bipolar daughter Always drama and chaos and nothing is EVER her fault I love her and have a relationship with her but it is not possible Comment from : Lynn Logan |
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Dr Peterson, would you consider publishing your podcasts in a book (few books) Each of them is loaded with so many thoughts that i need to go through few times to fully appreciate the meaning Comment from : Emilia B |
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Human Subject to err 💙😇💙 Comment from : Shari Simone Hampton |
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Crude but effectivesometimes its that way Kind of a 'tough love' approach, no doubt Thank you 💙😇💙 Comment from : Shari Simone Hampton |
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