10 Signs of a Husband with Avoidant Personality Traits

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How does someone with avoidant personality disorder even get a wife in the first place?
Comment from : IdontwanttochangemynameOK

What is the best treatment?
Comment from : Scott Kemp

Now do this with autism
Comment from : Ram Tuff Mama

Doesn’t share about their day but needs to know about yours- doesn’t respond to texts or calls but questions when you do the same - keeps money seperate but questions your spending
Comment from : Cathryn Walsh

The husband of the Law shall not be classified as avoidant 😂
Comment from : A Gucci

Wow, have you been following me around?
Comment from : Ben Jonson

well fuck 10/10 time to schedule even more appointments
Comment from : Nick

Listened 12/❄️/23 9:32am 🇬🇧
Comment from : cDayz

Hey everybody, Avoidant Personality Disorder here I have never heard anything so spot on before During my teenage years, it was not as bad My first panic attack really brought out the Avoidant traits to the extreme, and ending up with me being diagnosed with Agoraphobia With proper medication and therapy, I have been able to come leaps and bounds
Comment from : Jaye G

This is me I’m sixty and still feel as insecure as I did as a teenager I’ve wasted a life and that’s the burden I carry True regret for not being able to be the dad and husband I needed to be Regarding cause, in my case its not so much upbringing but genetic And that’s another true heartache, that I’ve passed this genetically and behaviorally through to kids who also struggle
Comment from : K R

thanks dokter Grande
Comment from : saar caron

I feel it applies to females too 💔😢brI see that's me and my dad
Comment from : Dina D

💔💔💔💔💔💔
Comment from : Dina D

💤🤮🤡😄👹🤣
Comment from : Iliana Garcia

That's me all right
Comment from : Douche Bagowicz

If it could apply to any partner AND you are a reputable professional why not title this “partner” instead?
Comment from : BeakerInShortShorts

Can you become avoidant because you dealt with a narcissistic partner?
Comment from : MentallyCrafted

Im confused when you say the husband Is this specific to husbands only?
Comment from : scowls Mcjowls

Me
Comment from : John Michael

Looked at this for hubby, turns out most of this applies to me, lol I may be on the autism spectrum, so think some of these are just some of my autism stuff :)
Comment from : C Rib

Will only intereact with people they knowusually when theyve had a drink because they cant act normal without itiescared they will say something which will make them look stupid
Comment from : susie foxy

Thank you very much for this highly informative video
Comment from : Agata Jarska

I thought I had APD but my doctor and I fogured out Im actually just a vulnerable narcissist! Yay!
Comment from : Sabin Battle-Issue

it is interesting that you mention the phrase "she should understood that I was trying to be friendly" because amber heard said a pretty similar thing at her testimony
Comment from : jasko

Thanks for this info I think i have this disorder gotta get some therapy Thank you
Comment from : Sergio

What if your life is a "cluster F" ?
Comment from : matt howard

Was also avoidant personality that's linked to lower rates of divorce? Maybe the whole thing of not recognizing fear on the wife's face in certain situations, thus tending to prolong it somewhat, has that effect of the whole thing of the scary bridge that supposedly makes people unconsciously "confused" and the whole scary thing is sort of converted into attraction If those experiments still hold up, there has been a lot of talk about reproducibility crises
Comment from : Petitio Principii

Thank you so much for helping me to understand what was causing my husband's inability to express emotions he is one that will never get help but he does have a generous side if you are patient
Comment from : Sandra Quatell

Thank you DrTodd Grande for explaining so beautifully and in detail about Avoidant Personality in a partner and how it is related to Social Anxiety disorder etc 🤗🙏
Comment from : Mirella DLima

14:57 ahaha oh no
Comment from : juhyetrgsf

Very helpful
Comment from : Gayle Shelton

This explains the complet invalidation I have felt from my husband about my fears I got him to agree to couples counseling and he is only responsive when he feels shamed and compassion in that shame but doesn't get my pain or fear otherwise It doesn't feel hopeful since thats what I need
Comment from : watercolorwonder

I think that this behavior can be developed If a man has been close with his wife if he has recently putten on a lot of weight, and he feels very self conscious about how his body has changed and looks Even though the wife does not care As the husband is really starting to change eating habits, and is starting to exercise Also this is a husband with extreme anxiety and SAD, as you said But, he has been with his wife for 13 years now The husband also has suffered panic attack and disorder all his life As the wife does as well, but is much more comfortable in her skin As she has a much more high metabolism and she doesn't any weight issues As this is the first time the husband has dealt with being out of shape and a weight issue
Comment from : That Horror Guy

Why is it interesting to suffer from 2 disorders in the same cluster?
Comment from : CivicCritical

10 signs br1over processing perfunctory & serious conversations br2comorbidity - depression, substance abuse, Panick attacks br3Vulnerable narcissismbr4Anxious & fearful attachment br5Fear of being laughed at br6victim of childhood neglect br7affective instability br8strong need for br9trouble recognising fear in facial expression br10self blame
Comment from : Mind & Body Wellness by Madhu

What can a BLPD wife do for her husband with APD? Because it feels alot like he is purposefully withholding love and affection and that makes me spiral and feel angry Especially when clearly saying "I need attention, I need affection "
Comment from : Alison Robertson

In Europe, as i see it, life is still considered normal Of course, it always is not A murderer is a murderer by all criteria
Comment from : Maria M!kinen

With a number of his infinite Affairs outside the wedlock ,my parents should , perhaps , never have tied the knot
Comment from : Maria M!kinen

I have almost every sign mentioned, and I was diagnosed with MDD, GAD, and social phobia Granted, I was diagnosed almost 10 years ago, at the age of 19
Comment from : lizzypepperoni

How would a person like this even end up being a husband🤔
Comment from : sun J

To all you avoidant people out there:you’re not the only ones that are suffering Your spouse, children, and family are suffering terribly from your refusal to get help
Comment from : Charlotte Boyett-Napper

Hi Dr Grande is hoarding a comorbidity of APD?
Comment from : LuCh

Hi Dr Grande Can you discuss stability of relationships when she makes more money than he? Do you have statistics? How many relationships/marriages break up in this arrangement?
Comment from : Marian Klein

I know that it’s unusual for antisocial and avoidant to be co-morbid, as they are two different clusters, but I’ve definitely seen sociopathic traits co-exist with avoidant traits Can you speak about that?
Comment from : LaCroix Creative

All this time I thought that gelotophobia was the fear of Italian ice cream
Comment from : Ghost In The Machine

Interestingly however, I'm not ever worried about saying the right thing anymore Now I just say what is true and guess how many people like hearing what is true I'll give you zero guesses
Comment from : blue unicorn

I don't know if this will ever reach you, but I have a question about getting help for a person with avoidant personality disorderbrbrIf the husband has been to counseling, but stopped going due fear of being viewed negatively, how can the husband be helped to seeking professional help again?
Comment from : Tobe Deleted

This is so me in so many ways No wonder I have trouble in my life
Comment from : Chris

This disorder describes my journey I have searched for years to understand why I am different I was diagnosed with autism a few years ago and during the personality assessment, it was found I may have avoidant personality traits as well but inconclusive Is it possible to have autism as well as avpd? They won't evaluate me for this because I have autism How could I be evaluated for avpd? I just want to better understand myself and I know there's more to the story than autism I feel like therapists see someone wanting a diagnosis as unworthy of their time
Comment from : Chris Lopez

This video was quite hard to follow You use a lot of psychological terms without an explanation of them
Comment from : Anon Ymous

You need to learn how to pronounce 'disorder'
Comment from : roger daily

This is my husband Now im trying to get help for myself to deal with this and our marriage What can you suggest? I have just started seeing a therapist for me because i know he wont go Is there a SUPPORT GROUP? Thankyou!
Comment from : Janet McCain

explains a lot about people who study people who study the writings of abbie hoffman
Comment from : eric van tassell

Its painful and so frustrating, avoid and do my own thing that makes me happy
Comment from : Petro Bowen

I fill alot of that Man - what do I do?
Comment from : Rich Lo

Oh GodI have the same problem when I see someone laughing I think they laught to me I was victim of peer violence I was laughed at and beaten My parents were strict I have trust issues and what not I don't know how I function at all to be frank I am a woman so this problems can be present no matter your gender
Comment from : J M

So in other words a person with Asperger's Syndrome yeah high-functioning autism Do you think the rise in mental illnesses in the world is partially or entirely perhaps related to allowing people with Autism to breed unfettered ?
Comment from : Sn0w

This explains a lot Thank you
Comment from : Soul Shiner Tarot

I am anxious but my husband is avoidant I am just now discovering about all this information We been married for 5 years 3 years we had no issues because I worked and took care of everything and we had so much space between us But when I lost my job, my mother and got sick My husband would not take off for me He is all about his jobs and being there for his co worker
Comment from : 2 Lose 2 Win

Avoidance personality disorder is a deep debilitating fear of rejection which in turn creates deep anxiety in social situations As a result, eye contact is generally avoided and head is generally held down People with this disorder isolate themselves and find comfort in video games and the internet Usually one notice the signs in themselves as a teenager Catching this disorder at the first signs is key As time goes by one only becomes more socially inapt I was 15 at my first signs and I was never treated I am now in my 40’s and married I still find that I am most comfortable in isolation My wife likes socializing and holding events and so of course that’s awkward and mentally draining for me lol
Comment from : 3b0ny1

in another video he mentioned people with AvPD have difficulty recognizing emotions in general, but here he says they only have difficulty recognizing fear? which is it
Comment from : Steam

14:12 This is why I love this channel; the reminders of social acceptability 😅
Comment from : SOS_Ali

I’m definitely the avoidant type Not sure it’s the disorder extreme, though
Comment from : Jean-Louis Blackburn

A guy with avoidant personality wouldn't even become a husband Ok, maybe in the case of very mild traits of APD he would be able to establish a relationship and get married
Comment from : lukkash

I think I might have this😐 I’m in therapy though I will ask my counselor
Comment from : Gina M

I was wondering when you continued talking if you would bring up a symptom or experience I didn't align with, so maybe that therapy my ex was talking about might be worth pursuing Plus I haven't talked to anyone face to face in two days and keep denying my coworkers advances to hang out and I feel bad about that but I'd rather be alone at home anyway that therapy
Comment from : Kai

Thought this was gonna be me when I read thumbnail as I used to avoid my wife because I couldn’t stand getting nagged or shamed into going to places I didn’t want to go because I had better things to do and she wanted to do something on a whim or spend all my money on holidays and things I have no interest in But this is different listening to this lol
Comment from : Gareth Jones

I question how a man with avoidant personality disorder even gets to "husband" status Like how did they even pursue a relationship with such a disorder?
Comment from : DN

I wanna know about the woman that could get an avoidant guy to marry her!
Comment from : Bretsgo_Landon

I have to hear this again I don’t get it
Comment from : adimeter

Wife avoidant
Comment from : Star Bright

Described me perfectly Now what do I do? I’m alone and can’t get help, since I am too afraid to pick up a phone and make a call Just wish I had someone to walk me hand-in-hand through the door
Comment from : Randall Dellwo

After seeing this, it really makes me think my father had APD or avoidant traits Thanks Dr Grande
Comment from : J

Hey Dr Mr, I am diagnosed with GAD long ago and taking my efexor everyday but although I am very good hearted, respectful and friendly when I am disrespected or treated unjust outside, I turn very very violent I mean cops and ambulances and courts, that violent! Is there a connection between GAD and this?
Comment from : Life Never Ends

I am an advoidant husband Love this for myself
Comment from : R H

Avoidants hardly recognizing fear I was so baffled by that that I went online and searched up the most basic test The very first expression shown was fear and I immediately got it wrong
Comment from : Oxycominum

Thank you for all these videos
Comment from : David barrett

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is what was most effective for me in treating my avpd If there is anyone here who hasn't heard about it or tried it, you should really give it a shot It's really easy to understand the basics and to practice it
Comment from : seriall1337