Название | : | Why Do We Choose Emotionally Unavailable Partners? // Stephanie Lyn Coaching |
Продолжительность | : | 11.06 |
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In the words on DJ Kahlid “You smaaort” ❤😂 Comment from : Happy Gilmore |
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Holy crapcakes 😮 I got a lot, but my highest nugget was I am so close to whole within myself and truly loving myself I'm doing some of those things and just learning to do some of these other things especially not being the nurturer who keeps allowing them in my bubble and dragging me out Comment from : Cheyenne Naegler |
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So genuinely grateful to find videos like these Thank you! Comment from : yari |
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You lost me at “You don’t love yourself” That’s just not healthy to tell people who are watching your content that they don’t love themselves Comment from : Estela Chacon |
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Too much woman speak Comment from : cristobalpalmero |
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I’m sorry I can’t believe it’s entirely childhood trauma involving parents, I have really good parents who are still to this day supportive :p I just ended up with a narcissist now I’m terrified of anyone who seems kind Comment from : Wendy Coulter |
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Because it’s fun and easy why not? 🤷🏻♀️ Comment from : Jess |
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I experienced a lot of emotional neglect growing up & had the “I am unloveable” wound I came from lack with low standards including codependency & the tendency to over give, earn & chase love His ego loved this & it was a very superficial relationship Comment from : Sanjeev Bains |
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What if i am able to recognise the signs, and i have been working on my self, i healed myself from the childhood trauma and i love my self, but still i dont like serious men I just find the kind of unavailable more attractive Am i still unavailable too? I just don't want to be with someone qnd have an ordinary relationship, seeing other people long relationships looks like they bore each other to death Comment from : super eleonora |
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Lit got the best reality check of my life watching this video 😮❤ Comment from : M Nb |
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Humans tend to become more insular (keep to ourselves) with age brbrWhen you're young the normal rejections that come in every life (didn't get the job, didn't get the promotion, didn't get a relationship with that person, didn't get invited with a group of friends, etc) - the normal rejections we all get in life pile up over timebrbrAnd we become more cautious Point being, some part of 'emotionally unavailable' is in everyone - we learn that if we simply don't put ourselves 'out there' (maybe only to get a job because it's a necessity and face only one type of rejection) - we avoid 'injury'brbrYou can work on 'unloading' the pile of rejections but when you're young, there just is no pile And you're emotionally 'available'brbrSo it's easier to deal with another person's "aloof" behavior, knowing it's partly a risk-reduction effort on their part When they were young they didn't have that They were more openbrbrIf you set your expectations "people who are aloof may have suffered more rejection than they wanted" it will help you deal with that person Invite them to a stand-up comedy show to loosen things up Comment from : GregChase |
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I hear this info repeated over and over again, they all repeat eachother and its bs I have been working on my self and healing, going to therapy and worked on my childhood issued Happy alone and guess what, I feel in love with somebody that is emotionaly unavailablebr I am not But people can hide for a long time and its realy not my/our problem if they cant be close or be loved They have to work on themself as well Comment from : Mimies Cyber and Stock Corner- MCSC |
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Thank you! Comment from : Nathan Kraiem |
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Its a universal problem that men aren't emotional available Why is that? Don't you think very few men are emotionally available Healing should start from men If every man is for every woman 1:1 ratio Comment from : vibe bliss |
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One thing I noticed There are grades or stages or emotional unavailability people Severe toxic Moderate toxic Mild toxic The more you heal yourself More you see you interact with lesser toxic people Comment from : vibe bliss |
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I jeep coming to this video again and again and value your advice more with every time Thank you Comment from : Anna Gelyuk |
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Hi Stephanie, iam 71, was married to a 51 year old Asian with NPD, separated( 11 mths) and in legal proceedings I have been watching your Videos attentively for about 6 mths, read lots of books and had a considerable amount of counselling brI am most impressed by everything you say, can't believe how wise you are for your youthful looks, so would like to know how old you are Wh as t benefits would you offer by me subscribing, I am Australian, and your programmes sound a couple of years old here on u tube Comment from : David Coffey |
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Oh okay, I guess cause I'm an "EMPATH" I'm susceptible to regression? I let them go, yesall that But my mind regressed regardless This isn't enough my mind still trauma bonded intensely, and I still cut them loose My emotions still jumped quick Comment from : AISHA NuSoul |
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For point #2 👉 what if you were fine , self-control talk, cope and all but your mind regressed to the old state when u had bad codependency So logically u cut it off BUT it doesn't stop your mind state from regressing back regardless of what u know logically and do otherwise I allowed myself to be available and all I DO know how to take care of myself emotionally and mentally I've made myself single for like 5 years Comment from : AISHA NuSoul |
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