Stop Attracting Narcissists By Understanding Three Basic Interactions

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I give and enjoy it But reciprocity is important After a while, lack of appreciation gets old
Comment from : Leslie

What time of day are the daily sessions for The Royal We community sessions?
Comment from : En Jay

My first guess was respect And that does fall under the category of exchange
Comment from : Bonnie Lee

You rock the " royal look " background screams real taste in designi need to watch this 3 times to concentrate on the content 😂
Comment from : abc

Excellent explanations
Comment from : LiftOff with Tamara Hill

It's not that the seed doesn't grow; it's just it may not grow into what we expected
Comment from : WolfGang

"Investing" in a narcissist is nothing but gamblingand 99 you losethat leftover 1 will Never come close to making up your losses
Comment from : Mirror Mirror

Hey how can I get 1 on 1s? I'd like to know your fees I listen to ALOT and along with a few others, I think you really see the truth in how people interact and I'd like to know more Specific things though, so that's why I'm seeking 1 on 1brbrshould I post my email? That concerns me
Comment from : Kris Ty

I love to give I enjoy it What I hate the most are people who can't say "Thank you"
Comment from : Gloria Forzaglia

Really good!
Comment from : nadja vale

I am so thankful for this message 🙏 it clears my mind of the frustration of over extending myself in toxic relationships thinking the more I do the more they will respect love and cherish me
Comment from : Ms Vë

This is really what I needed to hear today I thought I had a transactional relationship and it wasn't that at all He never gave back, and he wasn't investing, he wanted friends with benefits When I told him what I wanted he ghosted me
Comment from : E Muro

Exactly!
Comment from : Terri Lynch My Life

these 3 things remain: Faith, Hope, Love and the greatest of these is love ( not 'authority')
Comment from : vera

Very true, thank you 🙏
Comment from : Dorit Gomberg

Who determines what “equal” looks like? A completely transactional relationship is doomed to fail A successful relationship consists of all 3 dynamics; different ones for different seasons/stages
Comment from : BerryFlair

Wisdom! Thank you
Comment from : Linda Waxman

Brilliant! Thank you so much for making this video ❤
Comment from : StarChild

Why are you dressed like this? It's distracting! I really want to watch you!
Comment from : Addies life

Investing
Comment from : Rebecca Smoot

What color is the stained wood? I really like it
Comment from : Baba Lous

I want that jacket lol bad ass
Comment from : Yogaflame911

I needed to hear this today! Thank you! I feel at peace ❤❤❤THANK YOU!❤❤❤
Comment from : Tabitha S

That's one thing the narcissus is about greed and I know it's my mom's one of them and she always wants something bigger than you'll give her and she only gives so she can manipulate you with it later and I hate that in person so I don't deal with it I walk away now
Comment from : Cindy Drensky

I am single after being in 2 marriages that were very difficult- I am about to join some senior networks that help with various things friends and family used to do It’s nearly impossible to make friends in my area ( not sure exactly why!) but I believe it’s like people have to connect online before real life now and I am not about to connect with random strangers I read about the groups and some help with rides or even things like small techie chores ( putting in my ring doorbell camera for instance )
Comment from : Sunnyday

Been married for 30 years Ur full of crap
Comment from : Anthony dewayne

I just came on here to say your fashion sense both in clothing choice and interior design is DOPE
Comment from : Glamourcraft

Good points… haven’t thought of it in this way
Comment from : Sarah Frickel

Sir, what’s the fur collar thingy doing? You’re looking different I know you’ll see this message and you know me I want you to win in this space I can’t share you these days looking like a pimp daddy 😢brDo tell
Comment from : CallieMae

Wow That is the heart of it
Comment from : Katie Flies

This was an absolutely BEAUTIFUL expression! Thanks!
Comment from : Lee Be You

You remind me of elton John
Comment from : Helen Lee

I like the first two, the third should be: conflict "Conflict" connects the first two together It brings unseen goodness
Comment from : Hoa Vuong

Good stuff
Comment from : Angelique

Hurt people hurt people
Comment from : New Me

Very grateful for your straight-forward explanations in dealing with the narcissists Thank you so much for the 3 key concepts: exchange mutual benefits, investment and giving
Comment from : Janie Golden

Started watching you a few years ago You have really made this message very professional Watched you when that family first betrayed you Great job!!
Comment from : Gio Gio

Thanx for articulating what I've been feeling for the last 20 years Sometimes, anticipating a return is a way to gauge just what effect giving is having on someone In which case you are being mindful of if they're giving back Giving and investing are, effectively, the same thing It's when you EXPECT to get something back, and it doesn't happen, that you get disappointed
Comment from : Floyd Daniels

Give to self to give to others , you must PRACTICE on self
Comment from : Paul

Joy to the devil most for they need it
Comment from : Paul

Joy joy joy
Comment from : Paul

Wealth of heart , do to self to do to others
Comment from : Paul

That's me giving, I do feel good when I give to ALL , it may give them a moment of happiness
Comment from : Paul

We're living in a time when many people want you to give gifts at every turnAnd every eventAnd never acknowledge the gift with a thank you ever 😳 And treat you like you don't exist 🤔🥴all the rest of the time 20 years 🙁Hello💡
Comment from : J Franco

Hey my Mom worked for General Dynamics in Southern California during the 80s and 90s She helped build a tracking weapon for US Naval ships called the Phalinx
Comment from : Kassandra Hernandez

Wow thank you that was very insightful Really puts things in a new perspective for me
Comment from : Amber Lashell

Whoa! Thank you for your video Kevin! Whoa I like your perspective and pov Now I understand it better! Don’t confuse investing with giving And what is true giving Yes! Whoa This video makes me think! Opening a new door Thank you! 🎉🎉🎉
Comment from : nakiflo

Love the concepts!
Comment from : Suzanne Dawson

I gifted him an $80 pair of slippers and he screamed at me because they weren't the $100 pair of slippers I didn't expect anything back, but I certainly didn't expect to be made to feel guilty and ashamed because I only spent $80, let me say that again, $80, on house slippers I know age is just a number, but he was 43 at the time
Comment from : Teresa Bell

Who is this guy anyway? Do I really want to learn about narcissism from someone who calls himself "the royal we?"
Comment from : Laura Burges

You can't make someone love you
Comment from : jukes243

Why are you dressed like a pimp from a 1970's movie??? You use to dress normallyvery distracting from your content
Comment from : Constance Denchy

The narcissist who has a YouTube channel that talks about narcissism You Sir are a genius! 🙏
Comment from : brian gentile

This is a great video
Comment from : Juanita Jimenez

Great coat, dude !
Comment from : Jasmine Flower

My last relationship was an investment A bad investment of almost seven years wastedbrbrI did learn though that I did not like having to give so much for just frustration, arguments and abuse in return It went from investing because good partners help out their partner and he needed a lot of support to simply cashing enough tokens to avoid another lecture/argument I was miserable and decided I couldn't do it anymore so leftbrbrThis time around I focused on a partner who understands boundaries and respect Our relationship is 100 give give We both do things for each other and our lives It's not forced or coerced It most definitely isn't for some kind of future pay-off It's because we want to, and honestly there is a level of joy found in doing something out of love for a person brbrI do sometimes catch myself feeling a little guilty when my partner is cleaning up around the house and I'm not helping I remind myself he is happy to do that, I also do clean up too but often at different times to him I'm resting in this moment, but I do give in otherwaysbrbrAnd he too feels the same way It feels bizarre when I feel like I may have been the lazy one and he feels like he isbrbrThis guilt is perhaps something picked up from childhood It's not wanting to burden others This I belive is what lead to the trap of the investment relationship Or perhaps it was the investment relationship that had trained me into believing I needed to give as much as I can beyond what was reasonable otherwise I'm not worthy to be loved brbrFor anyone who feels similar it's important to learn to let go of that guilt It is not doing you any favours to get stuck in a cycle of giving beyond your capacity It is ok for others to do things for you without any expectations or fine print Someone choosing to help you out simply because they want to is a normal part of healthy relationship And giving within your capacity is also healthy It should feel good to help, not feel like it's an obligation you must live up to And it should never be you give everything to the point if exhaustion and the other person ignoring your wants and needs
Comment from : Ksara

The investment has fucking ruined me lol
Comment from : Divine Patchouli & Pine

I resigned myself to being old and undesirable, thus shall remain single
Comment from : Andrea Berryman

You nothing about narcissistic people, communication and respect BOREING
Comment from : Karen Summers

Investment
Comment from : Susanna Franklin

This guy looks like a narcissistic
Comment from : LAStars

Almost every relationship these days is transactional I think it's the networking, status and power seeking world we live in Obviously a country that would elect a narcissist like Trump president is morally bankrupt
Comment from : scott laux

I merely Help friends that I see that ARE in trouble I don"t expect Help from them, because they can't Help themselves So, that makes me a giver?(I'm confused) I don"t expect returns, they're people, not stocks
Comment from : Aladius

I think of the transactional relationships, as what I called a relationship of reciprocity I complained to my narc about reciprocity all of the time
Comment from : Page Mastrogiovanni

never hear about parents who have adult children that are narcissists
Comment from : chris

One of the greatest lessons one can learn is to except that this feeling we call love is blind The best scale for Knowing is consistent respect and support All these terms empathy/ narcissist We all have these some more than others It's best to get healthy before getting involved intimately I'm giving my wisdom It's actually good to lose in investment mode at least once Bought lesson
Comment from : MacknificentTV McGee

LEARNDED MY LESSONSDROPPED THAT CYCLE COMPLETELYAMENDONEFOR GOOD!
Comment from : Elonna Mills

Never stay with someone by hoping that one day they'll change!! When you do that you just betray yourself and hurt yourself 💔
Comment from : Rina

🙄
Comment from : Phyllis Hofberg

By the looks of you, and your entire setup, and doucy jacket, are definitely a full blown narcissist 🤦‍♂️
Comment from : Fortune Bubble 1 cent

15x speed You're welcome 🙏
Comment from : Stephanie Dandeneau

Very nice
Comment from : Robin Mork

Kevin, what are your credentials 🤷🏼‍♀️
Comment from : Tradewinds

Thankyou❤
Comment from : Mandooze

I just got out of a very toxic relationshipbrBeen in and out of it probably more times than I knowbrMade Mr think I'm the toxic one, and even caused me confusion about myself and my actionsbrVery very long story even for just 5 yearsbrI still love her very muchbrThe one before was emotional and physically abusivebrTaking a break from that life fir a while
Comment from : kawarider 72

Wow, I've never heard anyone describe giving in this wayI'm 50 and I DO give to people I don't like, lol I actually love the shock value
Comment from : Sherri Lynn

I am single and I am listening
Comment from : Sherri Lynn

Great video !!!!brSuch important information Narcissist and toxic people do not know the difference between giving unconditionally - without conditions Vs an exchange ! So many of us need to unplug from the Disney version of love and move into a more mature version of what love really is ! brSide note ; WAO to your coordination of colors and texture Your background looks fabulous !!!!
Comment from : Sun_Ocean_Sky

Thank you!! Don't be fertilizer for a cactus, lol Better to fertilize a currently fruit bearing cherry or apricot tree I love gardening Reminds me of life and investments
Comment from : Wendy

Nothing screams narcissist in this video more than the fake fur jacket! As the saying goes: what you criticize is what you are yourself
Comment from : Richie Kock