Avoidant Attachment

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Yeah its hard i know its true❤❤❤❤
Comment from : @Dee-uy3tx

I miss her so much and I wish I didn’t become so clingy towards the end Avoidants please understand that you NEED to work on yourself It’s not healthy to be Avoidant and it’s not healthy to be Anxious like I was Learn to communicate your emotions and if that is hard that at least communicate your needs with gentle words As for my anxious people out there, have patience with your emotions and work on being comfortable missing being in people emotional or physical space
Comment from : @fargracingco3135

I suggest she gets a plant maybe a fish and (unless willing to go to therapy and change) don't bring that into a relationship Unless you want to change you're not ready for a relationship that requires what you're running from
Comment from : @TeaLaRee

And sadly, he did Christmas Eve was the first time he said “I love you” after a year of dating Three weeks later he realized he needed to live his own life completely alone and had no desire to work toward interdependence I wish him only happiness
Comment from : @boytigerrockin

My boyfriend is avoidantly attached And this is EXACTLY him! He even told me he knows he is avoidantly attached I am a fearful-avoidant We both had very traumatic childhoods and these videos really help me understand him better Thank you ❤
Comment from : @Anabelle29

The last one explains my ex to a T Only been 6 weeks I can't even call her my ex yet lol Man how do you tell a dismissive avoidant that's what they are and that you love them and would do anything for them and to make it work
Comment from : @tumbleweedconnection7906

I understand the avoidant behavior when explained this way The problem is that we'll rarely get this explanation and instead get cheating or pining after an ex, stonewalling, refusal to seek therapy, working too much, blame shifting, etc Who deserves this type of treatment?
Comment from : @ah2667

If you care about someone you would just say this to them heal and stop thinking everything is an attack on you
Comment from : @user-ww4xs6dz7h

These are really helpful Whats the treatment?
Comment from : @mrstoner2udude799

The reason I run away from relationships I feel I might end up hurting the other person because of that
Comment from : @HetalOza112

bro what do i do i leave all the friendship behind and i don't know why
Comment from : @TheIntrepid-tz4zo

Soooo complete victim hood mind set?
Comment from : @leeben1504

sounds more like fearful avoidant
Comment from : @maverdine9685

Yep
Comment from : @OhhState

Wow! So this is what AvPD folks with self-esteem sound like! Everything is on a continuum!
Comment from : @roxstarb4129

❤111views
Comment from : @giulia2098

Avoid the Avoidant those people are broken for life
Comment from : @majob2363

And this is why I should learn to recognize these sign I’m an anxious attachment type It’s not meant to be
Comment from : @yunleung2631

I open up but only in a way that makes it seem like an exaggeration or joke
Comment from : @cheesy_potatoes234

Im sorry to say this but even her face features and mimik are so avoidant to me 😂
Comment from : @bbli-bq5xj

I’ve watched so many of these videos from you I’ve started hate you You just say all the things my husband does that trigger me
Comment from : @kuhu50

Thank you for making this video😊
Comment from : @aislinn1991_

My GF brought up these attachment styles she learned She knew my up bringing as a kid, (We have known each other a long time) I think we are meant to be together But my distant style which I think I have she thinks so too, doesn't mix with her anxious style We are working through it I have super trust issues and I keep everyone away even long term friends I have known since fifth grade I am almost 20 now Yeah bad with words, but, knowing this has helped us
Comment from : @SwaggyCrusader

I just want people not to know me I need no friends, no acquaintances, no enemies, no girlfriend Ignore me and I will ignore you Do this and all will be good in life Not all humans are social, unlike what the myth spreads
Comment from : @indridcold8433

All true and I'm more likely to show emotions to a complete stranger I know I will never see again than to a familiar person If I suddenly start to become comfortable and share much with familiar people, I'd be severing ties very soon However, when a familiar person doesn't mind or judge my distance, I start to lower my guard as long as they keep can keep secrets and are independent
Comment from : @johnolamide6469

What's the main cause for this ?
Comment from : @arankagionetti2098

I did this I was open I was told it was on me to deal with that stuff (which is fair) but that I needed to remain open to the negative effects of their attachment insecurities and be consistently patient with them and their needs Essentially, my attachment issues causing issues in the relationship was my problem Their attachment issues causing issues in the relationship was also my problem
Comment from : @joshcookify

I left twice #1 cause yes, after counseling and learning more about each other - things did improve but the stress toll it took on my body was INSANE and toxic just being in the relationship any longer and #2 our core values didn’t align after clarity gained in counseling … all this eventually caused me to lose attraction, completely detach and I was gone
Comment from : @dunn1375

Be true Tell them
Comment from : @AmorCreaseLabourLawConsu-sm8wv

I’m a total spaz, hold me… with your eyes
Comment from : @markcavandish1295

Roast chicken with crispy skin
Comment from : @mickwaniarcha1861

This is perfect
Comment from : @FertileG

Thank you for in a way being her and me being a anxious listening getting her perspective on this
Comment from : @DUInstinct

Very much this but also, in my case, because I know that I’m prone to these issues, I stop myself for a minute like “no, I want this relationship so I’m not gonna run away I have to deal with my vulnerability and conflict because that’s what’s required for a relationship” The other day, I brought up a conversation that exposed a big insecurity of mine to my bf Took me a week of mental preparation, feeling like I wish I’d die so I don’t have to deal with this talk, and a lot of trembling and hyperventilating when thinking of what I had to say, but I did it, and I think I’m proud of myself for that lol
Comment from : @TadanoCandy

From the partner point of view the pain in unbearable
Comment from : @jnavy1999

I'd rather be anything but avoidant It's like I'm fighting myself all the time I want to be a good partner and i want to be happy, in love, etc But i cant, and people on the internet villainise avoidants so theres little ACTUAL advice for me to get better besides "stop dating and stop ruining other peoples lives" :)))
Comment from : @roxanne8662

It's me :D
Comment from : @vulcanhaus

Hit home
Comment from : @avishii__________

There is a huge amount of comments saying 'avoidant people need to fix this issue to avoid hurting others and bring their attachments style to a secure one' I 100 agree, but the same goes for the anxious types, you also have a ton of issues to work through
Comment from : @poseidonboi

Lmao my mother
Comment from : @karinzatterberg3845

EXACTLY - thank you for putting words to this condition
Comment from : @cathygirard8407

As a dismissive avoidant, I've learned to stop caring what others think and just say what's on my mind
Comment from : @sifublack192

Forever alone
Comment from : @sylph99

Describes my ex down to an absolute tee
Comment from : @teamvial8055

You know the teacher on Charlie Brown ? Ya that’s what I hear when an avoidant start their whiny ass crying , grow tf up
Comment from : @luxeyjames5283

This is so freaking accurate
Comment from : @tiana1423

I WISH I was an avoidant They seem to suffer a whole lot less during a breakup
Comment from : @mairena1962

Oh hi! I didnt know my boyfriend changed into a pretty girl and got a youtube channel 😅
Comment from : @shannonb4011

So what are the partners of these avoidant people supposed to do? Would you prefer time and space only? Or are there steps we can take to help alleviate some of that trust anxiety and make y'all feel secure enough to be vulnerable?
Comment from : @riohoney6

oh
Comment from : @bigamateur9055

Every word is truebrbrI want to open up with someone but i know they will think i am mad brI tried many times but my friends never understand brSometimes they fell me i am mad person 😢
Comment from : @dheerajparashar

I started to become an aware FA It's one thing to be aware but it takes time for the body to catch up with accepting that being vulnerable it okay You need about a thousand confirmation with someone to trust that what they say is true Everyone should work at their own pace If someone is forcing you to speed up the process is a terrible friend since you have a lot to unpack
Comment from : @ashleylatson4813

Get help See a therapist or psychologist You can do this !
Comment from : @walkertranger5746

"all this closeness is just urrgh" 👏👏👏
Comment from : @nonofogaborone6640

😳😳😳😳😳😳What? This is me🥹🥹🥹🥹
Comment from : @imatter2me2day

This is enlightening and makes sense But now how do i work with it?
Comment from : @JACCO20082012

Damn my gf needs to see this
Comment from : @JimMulvaney

I always thought I was anxious attachment, maybe I’m avoidant? Or a combination of both??
Comment from : @michael-s

Commenting so ytb recommends me way more of this
Comment from : @neropanda2646

How do you reach out to explain you’ve learned and see them in a new light? Is the avoiding party willing to listen or do they see as “suffocating”
Comment from : @f0urrnr450

No lies here!!! 😂
Comment from : @breemds

Damnnn she's speaking facts right here, that's how we be feeling!!!!
Comment from : @vlad-igor

I hope this is my partner, and that he doesn't have narcissism
Comment from : @Photosynthesislove

I can multitask two objects at once So he dont know what he can give me
Comment from : @yuzuke4573

Hey I meet this doopganlger already 😆😉
Comment from : @mikeknight1926

Oh look, it's me
Comment from : @DiLifeandStyle

Woops
Comment from : @catross3713

This feels so nice to hear
Comment from : @crackdaddy9062

At this point, i just feel sorry for myself I wish i wasn't like this
Comment from : @zayyanusmani5360

This convo IRL:brSignificant other: Are you doing okay? brHer: I'm fine
Comment from : @DanielJamesEgan

Every Avoidant should be required by law to disclose their 'status' before ever being allowed to date or get married
Comment from : @amorwendelstadt3967

Thanks for this upload Lots of insight to help me understand
Comment from : @SonGoku31213

Never date someone that is an avoidant It's on them to heal, if they want to
Comment from : @FrankM

🙄
Comment from : @enel9961

so fking me
Comment from : @pacho640

Well how would you express issues in a relationship if they feel attacked every time you breing up the things that are so simple to talk about At least breing it up in a healthy way that dose not make a DA feel attacked brI have been in relationships with DAs and iam big on communicating even minor issues but everytime it's like pulling teeth even when iam being kind and loving and I can see them shutting down and avoiding me How do I make this better
Comment from : @empressspace8110

but is it like a mean intempt or is it unconsciously because i feel like he wants to hurt me with that behavior i think i have a more fearful secure attachment style i’m willing to accept this behavior but only when he is trying to overcome 1/2 things of that as i will do the same
Comment from : @danielapolo7346

Is so hard:(
Comment from : @mariabgonzalez6130

My Ex
Comment from : @christophereugeniou4974

This helps, provides perspective for me as a guy
Comment from : @Xxxxxrrr6464

This is 100me
Comment from : @DianaRamirez-sm5nx

This is me , she just described me
Comment from : @Toona_289

Is it normal to have like every kind? I feel like I'm an anxious, avoidant, and people pleaser
Comment from : @domesticonion8026

😳
Comment from : @boits88

I learned that people often use the info you share vulnerably against you
Comment from : @1SpunkyRed

Close, close I think the last stage of the avoidant attachment style is to completely get rid of outward and inward emotion; relying on logic rather than feelings
Comment from : @MichaelStrawn_I_am

Everyone in the comments who can relate to this mental and emotional disorder, you should also acknowledge that bYOU NEED THERAPY !/bbrbrIt's not cool at all that you recognize yourself in these bunhealthy traits and behaviors/b Stop romanticizing and enjoying it! Start healing!
Comment from : @Kapicheva