The "ick" as described by people with avoidant attachment

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I'm fearful avoidant, and peeps who relate, it's actually something that can be worked with, the person that you want to be in a relationship with just needs to be compassionate and secure enough to understand, because they will allow the space for you to get comfortable again, because that space does get rid of that ick ❤brbrAnd quick, yes I am working on myself, I communicated the issue (I needed space for now, but I am interested I just feel an extreme level of panic to the point of nausea) and they listened, gave me the space and didn't overreact I'm not expect them to fix me and will understand if they leave because if it's effecting them, but due to me getting better at communicating there is no need for panic for either of us ❤
Comment from : Cute Cupcake

Its disgust I feel like vomiting I feel rage
Comment from : Princess

What other nervous system do you have besides your central and peripheral? It’s in your body yay
Comment from : Good Dog Training Services

My idea on having healthy close attachments is with myself and having each part of myself spend quality time with a robot with specific settings for each separate part of myself Having a robot friend it's not a human which makes it safe for a close relationship Does anyone know how to create a robot friend? So that I can have a friend Because I'm really lonely My heart hurts so much but everytime I'm around others I'm lonely and when I'm alone I'm lonely There's never a time when I'm not lonely and Im stuck with holding all my emotions in that it causes deep physical pain It hurts so much that i lay on the floor on my back and wait until the electricity stops running through my body My soul desperately needs a friend And my imaginary friends in my head aren't doing it for me anymore
Comment from : Emily Davis

Is this why I respond by saying ew or by laughing when people pretend like they actually want to spend time with me or when they try to provide things for me like buying me food or material things or they want to hug me To me it's just gross But yet i long to be close to them but in person I just want to runaway Is this why it's ew
Comment from : Emily Davis

What helps is a healthy and truthful view of love, and faith in God
Comment from : Yvona J

It's not an anxiety response for me, I think of it as, "oh this person is not for me We are done" And I calmly move on lol
Comment from : A Turtley Perspective

I got your “ ick” What a ghetto
Comment from : America Theghetto

My ex got the ick when i had a feeling he was cheating Months later and weeks after i dumped him, i found out my intuition was correct You people are monsters
Comment from : AliSand

Majority of people on dating apps are avoidant Even if they are in a relationship they will still be looking They are never fully attached You may never know They also don’t consider cheating a big deal They are the absolute worst to be in a relationship with Be thankful if one gets the ick with you
Comment from : Melanie King

Brown Jake Gyllenhaal :)
Comment from : J S Bath

I was insecure attachment from childhood, I wools cling on so hard…now my abandonment fears in adulthood and dating have led me to an avoidant attachment style I’ll never let anyone in too close, even though I desire the closeness and comfort of a long term partner, the risk for me outweighs the reward now
Comment from : Leah

It’s expectations, pressure, a feeling of demands and being misunderstood that one’s need for self time is about the other person, it is not, it is about them, they start to feel like they are suffocating and controlling youbrOften a response to overwhelm And lack of downtime/ time to decompress or regroup/ time to recharge It’s often a sense of when your executive functioning is diminished and your exhaustion of a masking or people pleasing or something along these lines depending on your state of being (an example is being an introvert but working an extrovert job or being ADHD and having a deadline or not having learned to communicate or value one’s own needs or could even be a response to ab emotional event or trigger if one)
Comment from : Conscious Conversations

Not when I like you
Comment from : M S

I think I have a mixture between avoidant and anxious attachment styles I guess anxious if I really care about the personal lot but I have felt the act on both sides of the spectrum Also, if anybody knows or can answer this, can your parents have a secure attachment style yet model and anxious attachment style?
Comment from : Kristen Epic

wtff this is what i experience everytime someone cones close to me or even puts their hand on me like on my back or shoulder or something I just want to push them away but at the same time when i see other people sticking together all cuddly i love it and want it I always thought i was crazy or something but ok🙃
Comment from : hm